How did you define yourself before now?
Good question Callaway, I always defined myself by what other's thought (such as in childhood) and then later by the relationship I was in. This is the first time I've been independent of both.
For example, I've always been told that boredom is a bad thing, but oddly, I like to (sometimes) just be bored....
I guess I'm trying to figure out what I really do and don't like, irregardless of outside opinions.
I know I don't like someone who always has to be a busy body. But, when I start a project, I like to keep at it until its done, so that I can walk away from it and not have to come back and regroup and start on it again. (I know that that's not always practical though).