Aspie CHAOS!

[SovaNu]

Cal it was never going to work. come on. you have Haddy as an admin and Pea wanting to be an admin... the ingredients of napalm.

[Lucifer]

is anyone actually surprised by any of this?  and that's a genuine question - i'm baffled as to the apparent strength of feeling around these events.

[Calandale]

Oh, get a fucking mirror.

Not so. I don't try to hurt.

Hello? Destruction hurts?

 

Point taken.

There are differences between people's codes of honor. His actions don't break mine, for example, as I didn't take the site joining agreement that seriously - after all, when I joined, it was still the default.

The site agreement was not the only place this was listed.
But, it WAS the case when he joined. Agreeing to something
like that, made by someone you know, and violating the entire
principle strikes me as the act of someone I could never trust.

I really can't imagine what can bind someone, other than their
word. Fear, I guess. But, I'm not impressed with people motivated
by fear.

I think Gwen put things well, at ZOMG: http://www.zomgaspies.com/peegai-vs-calandale-t53659-40.html

Right, because you and everyone else on that site are helpless cripples.

No no. The SITE was the helpless cripple. It bared it's innards
and derived its potential strength from its weakness.

Adds note to dossier: Calandale thinks it's wrong to be completely lacking in purpose.

Indeed. That's WHY I support destruction.

(Not that he was completely lacking; if you go back and read, he makes it clear that he thinks this site is too pussified and intends to make a better one.)

I know his stated intentions. And, I blame the drink for thinking that
they make any sense. Pea doesn't have the 'time' to even be here
(so he says). He certainly didn't have the strength to stick around
and fight for what he believed in. He's not going to have enough
to make Chaos work, on his own. Even I was not such a megalomaniac
as to believe that my personality alone could push a site into working.
Hell, the place wasn't really doing so, even with a handful of contributors.

[Calandale]

Stop arguing over nothing.

she's right
we're arguing over nothing
obviously the only thing in the world that matters, is me and my cat

You're forgiven again.

Let's argue about you.

[Sophgay]

i'm not surprised
it was obvious something like this was going to happen
which is why i don't get the big "omg what a dishonorable thing to do" reaction

but then what do i know?
i'm too busy thinking about myself all the time and talking to my cat
did i ever tell you about my cat?
shes a calico
she likes cheesey wotsits and lying in the sun
she's a lot like me
that's another reason i like her
i like anything like me because i'm so obsessed with myself
is anyone reading this? i hope so,l because, after all, it is about me... and i AM the most important thing in the universe

[Calandale]

Well, I had hoped it would play out longer, and actually show something
about political reality - rather than merely the character of a couple of people.

What, you can't accept that this political reality is shaped by the characters of a couple of people?

Ugh! I had hoped not. It makes the issue impossible.

[richard]

is anyone actually surprised by any of this?

not really. it is sad though, maybe calandales just upset. if somebody did that to my site i would be, and also is all your guyses personal info off of thier? i wouldnt want peaguy to have my personal info. dudes an idiot

[Calandale]

what posts?

You have some 7k+. I'd suggest that they
are within THOSE posts.

ok........ WHICH posts? it would help if you just made the point you were trying to make, instead of just screwing around making half-assed comments

This is more fun.

i have nothing to say on this. i wasn't there when you first joined

Mere coincidence?

so you're saying it's because of me, that there are now more threads in that forum?
again, why don;t you jsut come out and say wtf it is you have to say?

You've been a heavy contributor. Is that bad? I don't know.
Sure seems to fit with the whole intensity lite thing though.

No. you obviously don't get what i'm saying
the point is, you were making out "would it really be that bad if we lost it all, if it was deleted? we can just start again... etc etc"
but now, you're going on and on about it, about how dishonourable Pea is... it's just a site ffs, and a site that was up for, what, 5 days or something?

Whoa! If someone steal $5 from me, I learn a lot about them,
with little harm. So that's a completely different situation. That
said, I was getting some pleasure from it.

[Lucifer]

BRING ON THE

[Calandale]

is anyone actually surprised by any of this?  and that's a genuine question - i'm baffled as to the apparent strength of feeling around these events.

A little. I didn't think it would happen so soon.
Plus, I'm terribly naive. I see the best in people;
something I have to consciously fight.

[Pyraxis]

Thanks for the link; off to read it.

I really can't imagine what can bind someone, other than their
word. Fear, I guess. But, I'm not impressed with people motivated by fear.

Interesting point. Thinking.

Right, because you and everyone else on that site are helpless cripples.

No no. The SITE was the helpless cripple. It bared it's innards
and derived its potential strength from its weakness.

Then maybe it ought to take lessons from DD on how to do that without being destroyed.

Adds note to dossier: Calandale thinks it's wrong to be completely lacking in purpose.

Indeed. That's WHY I support destruction.

  You're gonna have to explain the logic behind this one.

Pea doesn't have the 'time' to even be here
(so he says). He certainly didn't have the strength to stick around
and fight for what he believed in. He's not going to have enough
to make Chaos work, on his own. Even I was not such a megalomaniac
as to believe that my personality alone could push a site into working.
Hell, the place wasn't really doing so, even with a handful of contributors.

Fair point. I'm giving him a chance, though - he may surprise people. But I'm prepared for the place to not take off because of a lack of management skills and that pied-piper factor.

[Calandale]

i'm not surprised
it was obvious something like this was going to happen
which is why i don't get the big "omg what a dishonorable thing to do" reaction

As I said, they are completely different issues.
Just because something seems meaningless
DOESN'T mean that it's not filled with information.

This was a small act, doing little real harm, BUT
it reveals a good deal that I didn't realize about Pea.

And a lot that I already knew about Haddy - who did
attempt a minor coup of his own there. 

[Pyraxis]

What, you can't accept that this political reality is shaped by the characters of a couple of people?

Ugh! I had hoped not. It makes the issue impossible.

Not so, it just means you have to learn to work amongst other people.

Yeah I know, such a terrible fate for an aspie narcissist.

[Sophgay]

who stole $5 from you and what does that have to do with anything?
i post in there. so what? anyone on here is free to post anything they like (with obvious exceptions)
doesn't mean i want a support site - that is not a support forum, therefore you're making assumptions about me which are full of shit

[Calandale]

is anyone actually surprised by any of this?

not really. it is sad though, maybe calandales just upset. if somebody did that to my site i would be, and also is all your guyses personal info off of thier? i wouldnt want peaguy to have my personal info. dudes an idiot

I'm presuming that he doesn't know enough to use it.