Fuckn intensity members

[Soph]

Being less of a pessimist would be a start. Having a distraction would be even better.

A distraction is not going to help me with what I'm going through right now
Thanks for the advice though  But I think I know myself better than you do
And so far, distractions have just made me worse

Thats just sad tbh, especially given the free time you have.

I'm sad because I've never played chess?
I have a lot of free time now, yes
But there are plenty of other things I'd enjoy a LOT more than chess and going out drinking
I'm more likely to do those

Because you are being a fool...

How you get through life is largely dependent on your attitude. Something you need to look at, I suspect.

I'm being a fool? If anyone's being a fool, you are
My problems are nothing to do with my attitude

[Calandale]

But I think I know myself better than you do

You're wrong. Hadron knows everything
better than anyone.

I'm sad because I've never played chess?

Yes. But Go is better.

My problems are nothing to do with my attitude

Here, I disagree. A lot of what you
are plagued by is VERY dependent upon
your attitude. You are intrinsically defeatist,
from when I first saw you, at WP, to today.
Yeah, good things (like love) can overcome
that - but you make them less plausible, BY your
attitude.

And yes, this applies to me, as well.

[Soph]

Here, I disagree. A lot of what you
are plagued by is VERY dependent upon
your attitude. You are intrinsically defeatist,
from when I first saw you, at WP, to today.
Yeah, good things (like love) can overcome
that - but you make them less plausible, BY your
attitude.

And yes, this applies to me, as well.

How?
How would me being more positive change any of this?

[Soph]

How awas I defeatist on wp?

[Calandale]

How?
How would me being more positive change any of this?

You'd take the opportunities which came your
way.

How awas I defeatist on wp?

You would, even then, shoot down every
bloody suggestion of how to make things
a little easier. Never try - just see some possible
excuse why not to.

[Soph]

You'd take the opportunities which came your
way.

I take an opportunity if it's one I want or that I think will help
I've taken drugs when I didn't particularly want to
I've spent weeks with counselors when I hated it
I'm paying MONEY to try and get help
I'm going to see the mental health person when I don't want to

I do LOADS of things I don't want, to try and get better
And I don't make excuses
What excuses am I making?

You would, even then, shoot down every
bloody suggestion of how to make things
a little easier. Never try - just see some possible
excuse why not to.

That's bullshit
I don't make excuses
And I accept suggestions when i think they will actually help
Why do you think I ask people to help or for what they think I should do?

[Soph]

I try REALLY fucking hard
I'm sick of people saying I just whine about things and don't tryI'm doing several things at the moment, to try and get better. I've tried loads

I don't WANT to be fucking depressed, of course I try
I have problems I don't post about on here, which I am trying to fix
And I do loads of things I hate or don't want to do, just to get better

[Calandale]

You'd take the opportunities which came your
way.

I take an opportunity if it's one I want or that I think will help
I've taken drugs when I didn't particularly want to
I've spent weeks with counselors when I hated it
I'm paying MONEY to try and get help
I'm going to see the mental health person when I don't want to

I do LOADS of things I don't want, to try and get better
And I don't make excuses
What excuses am I making?

You would, even then, shoot down every
bloody suggestion of how to make things
a little easier. Never try - just see some possible
excuse why not to.

That's bullshit
I don't make excuses
And I accept suggestions when i think they will actually help
Why do you think I ask people to help or for what they think I should do?

When you think they'll help

Both times. You know EXACTLY what I'm
talking about here. You just won't give it a
chance. And, it's damned well going to be
too late.

[DirtDawg]

GAAAAAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!! why are people fighting over alcohol??




























there's plenty for everyone.

I don't see a fight. I see typical Hadron behavior.

Like the last thread of yours that I turned out to be right on (after you had jumped though all the hoops and gotten paranoid about it)

You turned out to be right?

Refresh my memory, please.

Look in the problems forum, where you eventually got told pretty much what I told you by the proffessor...

You could not possibly know what I heard from the professor or how the meeting went yesterday. I have not posted anything but a brief note.

I just looked back at your posts and you approached the issues no closer than a tangent.

Same with you, as I said you were being paranoid about it. I could have just written "do it" if I was less bored.

Fool.

Yes, you accused me of being paranoid and then, in the exact same post, told me to do the very research that you were thinking of as evidence of my paranoia. That was the deciding factor in my awarding you the thread trophy.


I'm surprised that you haven't figured out what I put in the trophy before I gave it to you.

[Soph]

Both times. You know EXACTLY what I'm
talking about here. You just won't give it a
chance. And, it's damned well going to be
too late.

I don't know what you're talking about
What was suggested to me on wp that I didn't do?
I've got bigger problems to try and sort out now than fuckin about doing things that aren't going to help
How am I doing "nothing?"

[Calandale]

Both times. You know EXACTLY what I'm
talking about here. You just won't give it a
chance. And, it's damned well going to be
too late.

I don't know what you're talking about
What was suggested to me on wp that I didn't do?
I've got bigger problems to try and sort out now than fuckin about doing things that aren't going to help
How am I doing "nothing?"

Nothing to do with WP, with that.
Whatever. I give up too.

[Soph]

You said I ignore suggestions and never do anything since wp
Some things WON'T help me, whatever other people seem to think

[Calandale]

You said I ignore suggestions and never do anything since wp
Some things WON'T help me, whatever other people seem to think

Right. And those seem to be anything and everything.
Damned near.

Anyhow, 'tis not my life.
I just saw enough things in
you that I thought I could give
some insight. I'm either wrong
(which I doubt) or you're unwilling.

Either way, nothing I can do.

[Soph]

You said I ignore suggestions and never do anything since wp
Some things WON'T help me, whatever other people seem to think

Right. And those seem to be anything and everything.
Damned near.

Anyhow, 'tis not my life.
I just saw enough things in
you that I thought I could give
some insight. I'm either wrong
(which I doubt) or you're unwilling.

Either way, nothing I can do.

ok
You're wrong though

[Christopher McCandless]

GAAAAAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!! why are people fighting over alcohol??




























there's plenty for everyone.

I don't see a fight. I see typical Hadron behavior.

Like the last thread of yours that I turned out to be right on (after you had jumped though all the hoops and gotten paranoid about it)

You turned out to be right?

Refresh my memory, please.

Look in the problems forum, where you eventually got told pretty much what I told you by the proffessor...

You could not possibly know what I heard from the professor or how the meeting went yesterday. I have not posted anything but a brief note.

I just looked back at your posts and you approached the issues no closer than a tangent.

Same with you, as I said you were being paranoid about it. I could have just written "do it" if I was less bored.

Fool.
Yes, you accused me of being paranoid and then, in the exact same post, told me to do the very research that you were thinking of as evidence of my paranoia. That was the deciding factor in my awarding you the thread trophy.

I told you to do the research because its easier than persuading you over an internet forum. The fact is you ended up in agreeance after doing it. You could have saved yourself lots of steps, here, if only you had listened.
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I'm surprised that you haven't figured out what I put in the trophy before I gave it to you.


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I have, and I dont appreciate it, thank you very much.