Now that is a cool question. I would love to tell you yes but I would be lying my arse off. Naturally my ex-wise and I had all the chemistry and so forth. X-factor seeping outta every orifice. Years down the track and she is depressed at home with a post-baby body (which severely bothered her not me in a big way) she was feeling down and unlovable with a small baby and isolated. I on the other hand was 27 slim, young, attractive and desperately in need of love and affection rather than having to put up with "real life" problems after work and sleepless nights looking after the baby whilst she caught up on sleep.
The girl I was working with "got me" my sense of humour, my mannerisms, my view of life. She was my right everything. She had European olivey skin, was older than me (yeah that is a plus with me), found me attractive and interesting and dumped her boyfriend and started pursuing me.
The x-factor was there everyone suspected an affair and our patter laughing, and gentle touching and brushing indicate a familiarity more than what intimacy we had experience but obviously mutually wanted. The temping agency extended an offer of a Christmas function. I on the same day got a permanent position in a company down the road.
She front ME. She said "I wasn't thinking of going to this but will you come along?"
Me thinking unashamedly with my dick said " Sure"
She said " I will wear something really nice and buy you a drink.....If i can have first dance"
I said sure.
I went home to my wife and baby that night.
Christmas was a month later. I went to no Christmas dos.
We split up 4 yrs later.
I regret that decision.
X-factor like richtor scale