Thats the stupidest thing i've ever heard in my life. It makes me sick that you think they'll get over it. Also My opinion of the afterlife differs to yours, I believe that all the superficial outer layers are shed when the soul leaves it's body. It is Energy and it is pure. People don't feel emotions after they die.
Of course, it's just a matter of opinion and belief. Thats why I think your post sounded lame. It may not to others. But people just don't get over it. A special person dying isn't getting flamed by some loser on an internet forum or liking some boy that isn't interested. It's so much more. They learn to live with it.
HER opinion is what matters,
since we're trying to fathom
whether her intentions were
selfish or not.
Anyhow, the point that I was making
was that the person I was responding to
was claiming that whatever was wrong,
SHE'D get over it. Well, if that's the case,
then her family would as well. Those that
I've lost, I've never gotten over. So, if they
think as he does, they would indeed. I'm in no
way implying that her family are also cold hearted
bastards.