Basically all I eat is a 'stand-alone' with the exception for soup. Absolutely love soup and it occurs I eat that before a dinner. Probably a smaller dinner that is then.
As for stuff like 'vla' or other sweet stuff dessert-wise. Maybe on a rare rare occasion but basic.... nup, nah, niet.
Ja, was raised with desserts too but skipped that pretty soon after I was fully risen.
Well, since I started cooking for myself.