I'd say it's VERY likely they contribute more. We *know* that you live off the state. They run a café. They are productive. You are not.
Whiner.
SPEAKING of productivity, why did you reject your mistress after promising her that you'll speak to your wife in a few months or so? Do you not realise how unproductive it was for you to make someone who loves you and who would've died for you into an emotional wreck, Odeon?
But nah, you had to play the big macho male having two women in your life fawning for your affections. A winner is you.
Thanks to that, you've made someone across the English Channel very suicidal.