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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18615 on: February 13, 2009, 07:22:36 PM »
My father-in-law is dying. They let him go home from the hospital, not because he was better but because there wasn't much they could do and he desperately wanted to get home.

Now that he's back home he's given up. He's too weak to drink without help, even, so he's probably going any day now. :(

I'm so sorry.

It's very hard to see someone you care about dying.

At least he will get to die where he wants to.

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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18616 on: February 13, 2009, 08:45:00 PM »
Sorry to hear that :hug:
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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18617 on: February 14, 2009, 01:45:13 AM »
:(


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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18618 on: February 14, 2009, 05:41:20 AM »
My father-in-law is dying. They let him go home from the hospital, not because he was better but because there wasn't much they could do and he desperately wanted to get home.

Now that he's back home he's given up. He's too weak to drink without help, even, so he's probably going any day now. :(

I'm so sorry.

It's very hard to see someone you care about dying.

At least he will get to die where he wants to.

Problem is, it could take some time. I hate to see him like this--there's no way he's going to recover but his body doesn't seem to be ready to quit, either. FFS, I don't know where the energy comes from; he's in too much pain to eat, he looks like one of those starving kids from Angola, with drawn, almost transparent, skin, and there's just nothing there to sustain the processes.

If there is a God he's a very cruel being.
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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18619 on: February 14, 2009, 05:50:49 AM »
God let my grandfather die with a football size tumour in his stomach. And he was too good for this world. He corrected me when I killed an ant as a child. God's a very nice guy - not.  :grrr:

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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18620 on: February 14, 2009, 06:33:07 AM »
God let my grandfather die with a football size tumour in his stomach. And he was too good for this world. He corrected me when I killed an ant as a child. God's a very nice guy - not.  :grrr:

He loves the sandniggers more, that's why, Lit.
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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18621 on: February 14, 2009, 07:43:08 AM »
:(


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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18622 on: February 14, 2009, 07:58:23 AM »
My father-in-law is dying. They let him go home from the hospital, not because he was better but because there wasn't much they could do and he desperately wanted to get home.

Now that he's back home he's given up. He's too weak to drink without help, even, so he's probably going any day now. :(
That's too bad, my Grandmother died last June and she was in bad shape before she died.

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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18623 on: February 14, 2009, 01:14:24 PM »
God let my grandfather die with a football size tumour in his stomach. And he was too good for this world. He corrected me when I killed an ant as a child. God's a very nice guy - not.  :grrr:

He loves the sandniggers more, that's why, Lit.

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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18624 on: February 14, 2009, 03:23:43 PM »
I am worried about my brother.   His work in Miami is letting people go and it seems he might be next on the chopping block.   If he is, then he moves back to Jville to live with my parents.   He is trying to quit drinking right now as well.    I can't do anything to help him and it sucks.
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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18625 on: February 14, 2009, 04:27:31 PM »
God let my grandfather die with a football size tumour in his stomach. And he was too good for this world. He corrected me when I killed an ant as a child. God's a very nice guy - not.  :grrr:

He loves the sandniggers more, that's why, Lit.

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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18626 on: February 14, 2009, 04:30:34 PM »
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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18627 on: February 14, 2009, 05:52:54 PM »
Thinking about how to tell my daughter that her grandfather died. An hour ago, she tip-toed downstairs, said she couldn't sleep. Asked if Mum was still here, if her Grandfather had died. I said she was still here, sleeping. And no, I didn't think he'd die tonight, answering her question. I knew that it was a white lie at best. Good chance he'll not survive the hour, actually.

For fuck's sake, I only said it because I knew she'd not sleep if I said something else. This is so fucked up.
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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18628 on: February 14, 2009, 06:01:30 PM »
Thinking about how to tell my daughter that her grandfather died. An hour ago, she tip-toed downstairs, said she couldn't sleep. Asked if Mum was still here, if her Grandfather had died. I said she was still here, sleeping. And no, I didn't think he'd die tonight, answering her question. I knew that it was a white lie at best. Good chance he'll not survive the hour, actually.

For fuck's sake, I only said it because I knew she'd not sleep if I said something else. This is so fucked up.

Better to hear it when your more settled no use in everyone  being up all night good for her to sleep.
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Re: Post what you're thinking right now.
« Reply #18629 on: February 14, 2009, 06:18:14 PM »
Wish I had useful advice. Direct and calm is the best I can think of. Seeing trustworthy adults disturbed was scarier than the actual events of the deaths, when my grandfathers died.
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