Suicide Rates

[McGiver]

So long as it's consensual.

is it ever?

is romeo and juliet like real life?

[Calandale]

So long as it's consensual.

is it ever?

I think so. My wife and I considered
it, a few times.

is romeo and juliet like real life?

They died for other reasons.
Weaker ones, I think. If Romeo
had just given her a goodbye fuck,
she would have awakened.

[QuirkyCarla]

Men have done that too. 

yet men are successful in their suicide attempts more than women.  i wonder why they need the attention when they are dead?

Just because they're more successful doesn't mean they all are. Maybe the men who attempt/commit suicide want their girlfriend to feel guilty about breaking up with them.

[SovaNu]

bullshit men are better. anyone can kill themself. it's easy.

Romeo and Juliet were like Star Trek time travel. bullshit. they were naive little children. and if they had IM they would have survived.

[McGiver]

Men have done that too. 

yet men are successful in their suicide attempts more than women.  i wonder why they need the attention when they are dead?

Just because they're more successful doesn't mean they all are. Maybe the men who attempt/commit suicide want their girlfriend to feel guilty about breaking up with them.

but where is the benefit of making someone feel guilt if you are not alive to benefit from it?

[SovaNu]

that's always kept me alive.

[Eclair]

a girl once told me that if i stopped dating her she would kill herself.
i said, Go ahead.

she didn't.  but this is why i suspect that women do it more for attention rather than ending it all.

I once dated someone who did kill themself, so it's catch 22.

[Eclair]

Men have done that too. 

Men do that a lot.

I wonder whether there are any statistics on whether men or women threaten to commit suicide over a break-up more often?

I think sometimes the men kill themselves and the woman because they can't stand the thought of her being with anyone else.  Therefore no-one is left behind to tell the real story or the build up of events. 

[renaeden]

a girl once told me that if i stopped dating her she would kill herself.
i said, Go ahead.
she didn't.  but this is why i suspect that women do it more for attention rather than ending it all.

I once dated someone who did kill themself, so it's catch 22.

My ex-boyfriend said he would and he did attempt suicide. But he set himself up where I would find him, knowing that I would, I think.

[Eclair]

a girl once told me that if i stopped dating her she would kill herself.
i said, Go ahead.
she didn't.  but this is why i suspect that women do it more for attention rather than ending it all.

I once dated someone who did kill themself, so it's catch 22.

My ex-boyfriend said he would and he did attempt suicide. But he set himself up where I would find him, knowing that I would, I think.

Yes, that can happen too.  Men threaten to commit suicide also, I don't think it's just a attention seeking female's last resort, that's for sure.

[El]

Because men can do it better.

Anything you can do I can do better...

[QuirkyCarla]

Men have done that too. 

yet men are successful in their suicide attempts more than women.  i wonder why they need the attention when they are dead?

Just because they're more successful doesn't mean they all are. Maybe the men who attempt/commit suicide want their girlfriend to feel guilty about breaking up with them.

but where is the benefit of making someone feel guilt if you are not alive to benefit from it?

because they are predicting what it's going to do before they die. i used to want to kill myself and leave a suicide note saying that it was because of the other kids that made fun of me so that they would feel guilty. i would have benefited from the knowledge of knowing what my death would do.

[Randy]

Men have done that too. 

yet men are successful in their suicide attempts more than women.  i wonder why they need the attention when they are dead?

Just because they're more successful doesn't mean they all are. Maybe the men who attempt/commit suicide want their girlfriend to feel guilty about breaking up with them.

F U C K E R,  you caught me.  Actually damn sensitivity got me in a hole, and its not the one  I wanted. Mom does not believe that I care about her so much, infact, its my sensitivity that is keeping her alive.   I bet the meds are helping, but nothing compares to a son who loves his mom.  She admits that it seems like I am the only one who cares about her.  They all do, but can't stand her.  I gave her a hug and she saw my eyes watering, then she reconsidered.  Then she went for her reality complex, the one where her bipolar disorder is undercontroll and I need taking care of.  She think I am suicidal now, because I am in deep shit. Its on the back burner actually, because  I did not get to have sex yet.  I worked really hard to make myself who I am, and now I am finally enjoying it.  I sorta don't want to do anything now when I am just starting be happy.  There is someone who needs me, someone who will be very upset if I go, and I need her to, more than you could imagine :hornysign:  All the time, I think the sign would be broken from over use. I blamed my mom, and I said partly.  She is so f u c k ed up she herd full blame. She is f u c k n driving me crazy.  She keeps telling me she won't do anything because she thinks I need her, well when there is everyone sucks, I do.  Love is a vaulable thing.  Reality complex is something I came up with, and its just like causing trouble to distract herself from her depression, but I don't give her the verbal abuse now, so I think she has a new game.  I appears she only does the stigmatizing when she is in a bad mood, then its however she can cope.  If that envolves abusing me, so be it.  She stopped trying that shit, because I don't play her game.

[Randy]

* AllDayGlowRandy has thoughts, but generally it would be  a waist to do anything.  He wants his mom to hang on till she finds peace, so she feel the reason I have to live.  That is why he choose to show his emotions here and not with his grandmother.

[Calandale]

Because men can do it better.

Anything you can do I can do better...

Prove it.