GA and renaeden hate each other.

[Leto729]

Why do You capitalize almost all Nouns and Pronouns?

I have always done so on the computer I don't really know why I always do it though just comes naturally for Me to do. I do it with out really thinking about doing. I also capitalize other words to emphasize them too.

[Tesla]

Why do You capitalize almost all Nouns and Pronouns?

I have always done so on the computer I don't really know why I always do it though just comes naturally for Me to do. I do it with out really thinking about doing. I also capitalize other words to emphasize them too.

I used to think you had a God complex.   

[Leto729]

Why do You capitalize almost all Nouns and Pronouns?

I have always done so on the computer I don't really know why I always do it though just comes naturally for Me to do. I do it with out really thinking about doing. I also capitalize other words to emphasize them too.

I used to think you had a God complex.   

I am Who I am: The Grand Almighty God of the Internet

[GalileoAce]

The Door:
The solid doors are the front doors leading into the house. All inner doors are like that door...weak.

Inner Anger:
9 times out of 10, my anger is borne of frustration. I get frustrated so easily and so quickly which kicks into my anger and I need to release it. I'm not one of the people that bottle anger. I tend to bottle frustration though, until it gets to a point where my anger explodes in a physical display of strength against some inanimate object...or an enemy. I'd never hit renaeden, even if that disc was Armada II, I doubt I'd actually hit her. But if renaeden were an enemy (by enemy I mean someone who has displayed a clear dislike of me, and someone who is working against me) I'd have had no compunctions about assaulting her or any of my enemies. When I was younger the point where I'd lash out was much sooner and I'd be forever getting into fights at school, but now that I'm a little older I feel that my anger is tempered somewhat and the point at which I explode is lesser. And also my socialisation is greatly reduced since school.

[renaeden]

My anger scares me. I do take medication to stabilise my mood but I wonder how much effect it should have and when it is okay to get angry. I think I am a lot better than I used to be. But obviously I still have problems.

[Alex179]

At least you two can look at your anger and find ways to better yourself to where it doesn't cause you problems.   Too many people do not acknowledge that their anger can cause them problems, both healthwise and in relationships with other people.  It is good that you have some sort of control over how you react in anger.  Twitch reactions can get you in trouble, while bottling it in is unhealthy.   I need to work on my anger, that much is for sure.

[renaeden]

It is good that you have some sort of control over how you react in anger.

That is the thing. I seem not to have much control over my anger sometimes. My mum calls it "flashpoint". I think it is a lot of little things then one more little thing is added and I explode. It appears as an overreaction because I didn't show feelings beforehand.

With GA before, I kept asking what should I do and I got the same answer every time. It annoyed and confused me little by little until I exploded at him.

[GalileoAce]

With GA before, I kept asking what should I do and I got the same answer every time. It annoyed and confused me little by little until I exploded at him.

Much to my shock and surprise

[richard]

this thread is exactly why i'll never want to meet another person with aspergers irl. sorry

[Kiriana]

this thread is exactly why i'll never want to meet another person with aspergers irl. sorry

Which does make a certain amount of sense in theory, but I've honestly found these types of arguments to be much worse when one partner is Aspie, and one is NT.

The whole thing sounds a lot like Mordok and I's first year of marriage, but then we figured each other out and things settled considerably.  But I've talked to NTs who have been married to Aspies for years upon years and they STILL have these fights regularly because they just don't get it.  Sounds totally counterintuitive, I know, and yet I see it over and over.

[richard]

your married to mordok?

[Kiriana]

your married to mordok?

Yep!  7 years.

[richard]

well thats cool i guess. 

[Kiriana]

Most of the time, yeah.  lol

[Callaway]

this thread is exactly why i'll never want to meet another person with aspergers irl. sorry

Which does make a certain amount of sense in theory, but I've honestly found these types of arguments to be much worse when one partner is Aspie, and one is NT.

The whole thing sounds a lot like Mordok and I's first year of marriage, but then we figured each other out and things settled considerably.  But I've talked to NTs who have been married to Aspies for years upon years and they STILL have these fights regularly because they just don't get it.  Sounds totally counterintuitive, I know, and yet I see it over and over.

I had a similar fight with my husband in our first year of marriage too.  I threw an ugly Mayan idol thing he bought on our honeymoon on the floor, but it didn't break.  I can't remember now why I was angry, but then he was angry that I threw it, so he threw it harder through a glass topped coffee table, then both it and the glass coffee table shattered.  Then I was furious with him.

I think it takes practice getting used to living with somebody else.