Fess up you fucking arseholes

[Calandale]

Also, i have had differences with Calandale, and he is a rapist, even so i wouldn't say i disliked him.

I always thought we rather got along well.
Didn't quite get what happened to change
your mind at some point.

I THINK it was about when you started trying
to get someone to make you a mod over at WP.

[Lucifer]

I agree with McFonzy, i dont dislike anyone either.

nor i.  i can't seem to do "medium".  i either really like someone, loathe them, or their existence doesn't impinge on my consciousness at all, when they're not directly in front of me.

[SovaNu]

thank you Calandale. i've had a fear thing with rape for some time and anything rape related caused a panic reaction in me. someone mentioning it online... and i have a loathing toward rapists. just shut down and hate them, that's it. you've helped me see some grey shades in this. not that it excuses what you did but i somehow find this fascinating.

i read your links but i still don't know what exactly happened.

It's complicated. The short side, we were together, fucking
regularly. She managed to build things up and we both ignored
the signs of violence which were building up. All surrounding the
fact that we were supposed to become a couple, and I disliked
her - maybe even hated. When the night actually came, the thing
she had been saying she would unleash from me came out.

It wasn't what she expected.

But, from that point, our relationship became one of abuse. Maybe it
was earlier. It was hideous, in many ways. But there are things a miss
about it. Scares the shit out of me.

i guess that's part of being human. what a mess we can make.

have you had sex since? or did it scare you off it?

[SovaNu]

I agree with McFonzy, i dont dislike anyone either.

nor i.  i can't seem to do "medium".  i either really like someone, loathe them, or their existence doesn't impinge on my consciousness at all, when they're not directly in front of me.

i love your passion. *is lesboaspie*

[Lucifer]

i love you too, LA.   

("lesboaspie" !    new nick?)

[Christopher McCandless]

I agree with McFonzy, i dont dislike anyone either.

nor i.  i can't seem to do "medium".  i either really like someone, loathe them, or their existence doesn't impinge on my consciousness at all, when they're not directly in front of me.

Isnt loathe just really intense dislike for someone though?

[SovaNu]

Lesboho rny. mwahaha, fucking filters.

[SovaNu]

I agree with McFonzy, i dont dislike anyone either.

nor i.  i can't seem to do "medium".  i either really like someone, loathe them, or their existence doesn't impinge on my consciousness at all, when they're not directly in front of me.

Isnt loathe just really intense dislike for someone though?

what's your point, little man tate?

[Kosmonaut]

Also, i have had differences with Calandale, and he is a rapist, even so i wouldn't say i disliked him.

I always thought we rather got along well.
Didn't quite get what happened to change
your mind at some point.

I THINK it was about when you started trying
to get someone to make you a mod over at WP.

Yes that was it. My campaign to become a WPmod was a complete failure and i blamed you for it all.
Luckily, i have seen the error of my ways.

[Calandale]

have you had P.I. since? or did it scare you off it?

Many times.
She and I moved in together
afterwards.

And, I met my wife while we were still fucking
regularly. It was a messed up situation.

[Christopher McCandless]

I agree with McFonzy, i dont dislike anyone either.

nor i.  i can't seem to do "medium".  i either really like someone, loathe them, or their existence doesn't impinge on my consciousness at all, when they're not directly in front of me.

Isnt loathe just really intense dislike for someone though?

what's your point, little man tate?

Lucifer has dodged the question in a fashion, and I have given away that there is no one that I dislike or loathe on this forum.

[Calandale]

Yes that was it. My campaign to become a WPmod was a complete failure and i blamed you for it all.
Luckily, i have seen the error of my ways.

Odd. That's not how I'd have constructed it.
Actually, seems to me that you had stopped
being quite so loving and cuddly a bit BEFORE
your attempt.

[Calandale]

have you had P.I. since? or did it scare you off it?

I think I am a control freak, but a passive-aggressive one.
It's something I try to fight though, so it's hard to explain
in terms of actions. But my desires are towards total dominance.

I go berserk now and then. Like I said, only happened once in the
last 15 yrs (that I remember). But, it scares me (and sometimes
is attractive in a sick sort of way) to be back in the kind of relation
that I had with my psycho ex. As our situation was winding down,
I was terrified that I should never be with anyone again, for fear of
losing control, and becoming abusive with anyone. Now I know that
I don't have to be, but I'm still not sure that I could avoid someone
that I knew was a bad fit for me that way.

And yes, I'm still scared.

[Kosmonaut]

Yes that was it. My campaign to become a WPmod was a complete failure and i blamed you for it all.
Luckily, i have seen the error of my ways.

Odd. That's not how I'd have constructed it.
Actually, seems to me that you had stopped
being quite so loving and cuddly a bit BEFORE
your attempt.

Odd. Loving and cuddly was something i never realised i started being.
Oh, hang on, you are being sarcastic.
So long as you are posting on forums, then at least you are not 'out-there' raping people. That is how i serve the community. I don't need to be a mod.

[Calandale]

Odd. Loving and cuddly was something i never realised i started being.

Actually, I saw it that way.
You were fairly well missed, for
a bit too.

Oh, hang on, you are being sarcastic.

No. Your trolling was playful.

So long as you are posting on forums, then at least you are not 'out-there' raping people.

I'm about the least aggressive person when it comes
to sex. The kind of rape that you are describing is
impossible for me.