You're probably a bit to much for me in bed anyways. I'm not into the BDSM thing. I have'nt found the right partner for it. I would'nt be the submissive in the first place. Tying up and whipping someone else I might try though. 
Yes i probably am a bit too much lol
Well its always best to find the right partner no matter what your into i think, and as for the BDSM etc, not ALL of us dominant parties want a submissive partner OR a plaything who will let you control him all the time, you see thats where some people can get a little closed minded and their ideas a little muddled. Sure it can be fun etc (though at times a bit boring), but the bigger picture can sometimes just be as clearcut and simple as yes your into it, you enjoy it etc but you may also be looking for your match, someone who can give back as good as they get, trying to drag that extra something out of that person, looking for your equal (which is where things get interesting), but not something im personally gonna discuss further publically.
