No one expects the Spanish inquisition.
http://www.spikedhumor.com/articles/88881/Monty_Python_Spanish_Inquisition.html
I hope that if it was a gradual thing, then it is what both of you want.
Eh. I can't speak for him, but it's what
I want.
are you afraid that you will never find anybody else?
that you are compatible with?
If I enter a relationship with someone, I'm assume I'll conisder myself compatable with them at that time. Relationships don't exist in a vaccuum, though, nor do the people in them. People change, situations change, and compatibility changes. neither relationships nor the people who are in them are eternal. If you're wondering if I think I'll ever find that perfect special someone to spend the rest of my life with, refer back to my comment that I'm only 21. If it happens, it happens, but I'll be a bit surprised if it happens any time soon, though of course seeing as I won't live forever there will be that certain specail someone after whom there is nobody else by default (it doesn't count if a necro gets it on with my corpse).
Does this answer your question yet?