Why does it matter?, for one thing I am attracted to her, two we have much in common, and three she should have told me. Even though we are just friends, I think things can turn around. I don;t know what the issue is, I wish she would tell me. I feal there is something she is not getting. I am sorry QC, I will keep my theories to myself, so you won;t get agravated. You said for me not speak for you. I am not , but if it conveys that message, I should not say anything. Instead I should ask you, and wait patiently for your answer. I am happy I aleast got her friendship though.