What is the worst thing some one has done to you?
It's hard to decide among betraying my trust, lying to me,and using me, but when I try to think of a situation, one situation sticks out in particular.
A while ago I had a friend who was pretty mean to me and for some reason I took her shit. I guess because of low self-esteem. I remember we both auditioned for select chorus (regular chorus allowed anyone in and there were well over a hundred members...for select about 40-45 of the people who auditioned were picked). I made it, and she didn't. Now if I were in her shoes, I would have felt bad but still congratulated my friend. What she did was get very angry and acted like it was my fault. She didn't forget it either. I believe on a few different occasions, she told me, "I should have made select chorus, not you." Basically, she was unsupportive and occasionally verbally abusive...and she was supposed to be my
friend.
Heh, I realize that's kind of petty, but it's the first thing that came to mind.