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Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« on: June 16, 2007, 03:23:01 AM »
We say that this site toughens us up.  (IIRC).     I think we should have a thread for, general advice to help people who don't find it easy to cope with attacks, people disagreeing with them etc.  I have come a long way since my immature early days on WP, and I would like to share my own coping tactics, and hear others.

One of mine is just to sit back and realize that all the most intelligent, important people get attacked and disagreed with the most.  Al great scientists, world leaders, politicians etc.

Another is just to not post immedialtly, but type it out, then come back to it and think before posting it.

(I don't nessacarily follow these rules )

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Re: Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« Reply #1 on: June 16, 2007, 03:25:26 AM »
I find that the proper dedication to
spam makes one nearly immune
to blows landing.

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Re: Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« Reply #2 on: June 16, 2007, 03:26:55 AM »
good point , I think if you geniunley think that what you are saying is the gospel truth its bad, but if you have half an idea it may be garbage anyway its ok.

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Re: Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« Reply #3 on: June 16, 2007, 03:27:55 AM »
good point , I think if you geniunley think that what you are saying is the gospel truth its bad, but if you have half an idea it may be garbage anyway its ok.

Garbage? Sir, you malign me.
My spam BECOMES gospel
truth, simply by the act of
it's creation.

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Re: Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« Reply #4 on: June 16, 2007, 03:31:25 AM »
bollocks. you just figure if you throw enough soggies at the ceiling, a few will stick.

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Re: Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« Reply #5 on: June 16, 2007, 03:31:58 AM »
good point , I think if you geniunley think that what you are saying is the gospel truth its bad, but if you have half an idea it may be garbage anyway its ok.

Garbage? Sir, you malign me.
My spam BECOMES gospel
truth, simply by the act of
it's creation.

It depends how you interpret the text >:D

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Re: Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« Reply #6 on: June 16, 2007, 03:32:28 AM »
We have the forum for people with real problems for when we people want advice, but I don't think its a smart idea having a general emo friendly thread elsewhere, it gives people a false sense of security.

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Re: Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« Reply #7 on: June 16, 2007, 03:34:00 AM »
Plus it encourages emos to join, which isn't really fair on them considering that we won't enable them in their whiny self-pity.

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Re: Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« Reply #8 on: June 16, 2007, 03:35:42 AM »
why do emos have hair like hitler?

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Re: Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« Reply #9 on: June 16, 2007, 04:16:07 AM »
why do emos have hair like hitler?
Hitler commited suicide... hmmm I'm starting to see a connection.
This brain could do with some more dimethyltryptamine.

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Re: Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« Reply #10 on: June 16, 2007, 06:45:41 AM »
you cope simply by fighting back.
sometimes you must realize that you are wrong.  that is when double talk comes in handy. ;)
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Re: Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« Reply #11 on: June 16, 2007, 06:51:28 AM »
all the most intelligent, important people get attacked and disagreed with the most. 
Agreed. So I'm doing ok there.

Another thing is to not answer the insults but the other parts of people's posts (if there are any).
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Re: Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« Reply #12 on: June 16, 2007, 02:45:15 PM »
Being emo is fucking great.
You feel so much more.

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Re: Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« Reply #13 on: June 16, 2007, 03:31:51 PM »
Being emo is fucking great.
You feel so much more.
you waste alot of time also.
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Re: Helping Emos to Cope Online.
« Reply #14 on: June 16, 2007, 03:37:22 PM »
Being emo is fucking great.
You feel so much more.
you waste alot of time also.

I'll waste it one way or another.
Might as well be feeling.