Do women get the easy treatment....

[McGiver]

The funny thing about this discussion is that I suspect a lot of the women here would be totally turned off by the idea that a male member is going easy on them.   That's not to say that we want men who are assholes for the sake of it, but a total pushover is generally not considered a bonus (or is that just my fucked up thinking again?).

men are subject to a womans whim.

[purposefulinsanity]

I would say that I'm a bit more considerate and tactful to my family or to those I regard as friends, but I don't think that makes me a pushover or anything like that.

There's nothing wrong with being respectful or tactful- I don't see you as a pushover.

[purposefulinsanity]

The funny thing about this discussion is that I suspect a lot of the women here would be totally turned off by the idea that a male member is going easy on them.   That's not to say that we want men who are assholes for the sake of it, but a total pushover is generally not considered a bonus (or is that just my fucked up thinking again?).

men are subject to what they think is a womans whim.

Fixed

[ozymandias]

I don't think the women get it that easy, maybe in a few cases, but, not all.  Quite a few give as good as they get.

[McGiver]

The partly is yes, because us men want punte and we love our bitchs. At the same time I have noticed they get less pay as a man for doing equally tough work.  That with all the treat of some boyfriends pisses me off.  She told me to cut out with the funny last night because of all the jokes I was making up.  She said her stomach hurts, and I was like you need an enema.  An enema as in dick up your ass!

Docs think they are right 100percent of the time because of their degrees, and are so afraid of embarassment at times.  I have seen that in my psych book where Franz Gail argue his case of phrenology, when such complex organsims probably have more complex processes.  Idiots!

not at my job.

in fact, the girls probably get paid more.
we all get the same pay, in each skill category, but the women tend to get way better breaks, because they flirt with the bosses....  so if time is money, then they are making more.

it doesn't work the same for men, who try to flirt with women bosses.  or maybe that's just me.

[McGiver]

I don't think the women get it that easy, maybe in a few cases, but, not all.  Quite a few give as good as they get.

i disagree.
i think that the women here give better than they get.  because they are treated differently.
the most that a woman gets here, is from another woman.



do i predict: all out war.
people trying now to prove that they don't hold double standards.

[purposefulinsanity]

No- but you can expect some vicious grudge fucking if you admit that you've gone easy on me because I'm female. 

[The_P]

Rape, miscarriages, the menopause -- oh my!

Shaving is the ultimate bastard of a grooming job for blokes, I must admit.

Now I'm being cheeky here.

[Lucifer]

The funny thing about this discussion is that I suspect a lot of the women here would be totally turned off by the idea that a male member is going easy on them.   That's not to say that we want men who are assholes for the sake of it, but a total pushover is generally not considered a bonus (or is that just my fucked up thinking again?).

nope - i completely agree.  men who act like spaniels make me want to do violence to their person.  strangely, many men seem to think that a strong woman wants a man to dominate.  wrong, chaps - all the strong women i know want a man to match them, a real man, but not some neanderthal bully.

[Lucifer]

Rape, miscarriages, the menopause -- oh my!

Shaving is the ultimate bastard of a grooming job for blokes, I must admit.

Now I'm being cheeky here.

i should hope so.  not funny subjects at all.

[McGiver]

No- but you can expect some vicious grudge fucking if you admit that you've gone easy on me because I'm female. 

i never went easy on you. not at first.
but over time i think that maybe i have.  but that is based in your previous argument about people that you respect.  i began going easier on you after the two of us had invested in time and getting to know each other.
but, i know that i still infuriate you!

[purposefulinsanity]

I think you infuriate me deliberately sometimes. 

[The_P]

Rape, miscarriages, the menopause -- oh my!

Shaving is the ultimate bastard of a grooming job for blokes, I must admit.

Now I'm being cheeky here.

i should hope so.  not funny subjects at all.

I don't think they are, either. But the British have developed a twisted sense of humour to deal with the crap thrown at them in life. (Well, that's how I normally deal with my issues -- moan a lot, add a little humour into the mix.)

[Lucifer]

Rape, miscarriages, the menopause -- oh my!

Shaving is the ultimate bastard of a grooming job for blokes, I must admit.

Now I'm being cheeky here.

i should hope so.  not funny subjects at all.

I don't think they are, either. But the British have developed a twisted sense of humour to deal with the crap thrown at them in life. (Well, that's how I normally deal with my issues -- moan a lot, add a little humour into the mix.)

maybe.  but some things just aren't funny, full stop.

[McGiver]

I think you infuriate me deliberately sometimes. 

do i?


and how does that make you feel?