Just say no!

[Calandale]

on that subject of asking someone out.  what about fair play.  why should the onus be on the man a bulk of the time to initiate getting together?

I'd agree with that if only if it wasn't for the fact that in my experience some men don't like it when a woman asks them out, they seem to wonder what's wrong with her if she does.

Men like a challenge?
Men like the thrill of the chase?
PI...surely that's game playing?

I LIKE your posting style here. 

[Calandale]

I agree it is all bullshit- who gives a rat's arse if you've been out with someone enough times to fuck them?  If you want to fuck them should it really matter if you're following the 'rules'?

Times? I use sex as an icebreaker.

Or I did. Now, I don't use it at all. 

Because the wife is too stiff as a board?

I don't know. I've misplaced her.


Anyhow, I'm impressed with what I caused.

[DirtDawg]

on that subject of asking someone out.  what about fair play.  why should the onus be on the man a bulk of the time to initiate getting together?

I'd agree with that if only if it wasn't for the fact that in my experience some men don't like it when a woman asks them out, they seem to wonder what's wrong with her if she does.

Men like a challenge?
Men like the thrill of the chase?
PI...surely that's game playing?

That's the point I was making in my early question to McStud.  There's game playing going on from both sides yet women are the ones that get called dishonest cunts because of it.

You know what though...the boys here get all funny about it and yet the girls here are probably the ones least inclined to do it...but we get attacked for it.
I'm going to have a Bag the Ball Owners thread...where we bitch our asses out about guys!

I think this is a phenomenally good idea. It will need policing, continually, for it to be productive, but I would enjoy to hear more from the feminine perspective, deeper than the obvious cheapshots we set up against ourselves for your easy picking. Those are too easy. Getting down to the real bones of how we fuck up so much might help some of the guys who are still out there, in the game.

[McGiver]

eclair,

I thought it was a general discussion myself.  I was teasing about the crassmess of the in house pussy statement...why do you jump down on me and no-one else?

for some reason you make me feel insecure.

I'm sorry that you feel that way.

i am the one that should feel sorry. the issue is with me, not you.

I'm thinking that anyone who knows me, male or female...or anyone I ever dated who read any of my posts here would say that I am being me...that I am being honest.  I've said that to you before...that I would be easily recognisable if someone who knew me logged on here.
I know the issue is with you...just doesn't seem to matter what comments I make they just are annhilated.  It's exhausting.

not annihilated, just questioned.

[Calandale]

no.

[McGiver]

there is a bottom line here:

equality needs to cut both ways in the dating game.
men are simple, or should i say stupid.  we keep the traditional ways alive.  and we put a price on pussy.
what i am saying is that if we stop paying for it then the price will go down.  and eventually, women will have to be more honest (in general) about what they want.  since it won't be so damn easy.


and....

[Calandale]

no.

[McGiver]

no.

i would ask you if you have anything to contribute, but i know that the answer will be....

[Calandale]

Just following orders, sir.

Sir, no, sir!

[richard]

then nobody would probably have sex. women arent intrested in it. withought free stuff, is that what you want?

No- women just aren't interested in sex with you without free stuff.

so uh wanna fuck? or do you need a new pair of shoes first

[McGiver]

then nobody would probably have sex. women arent intrested in it. withought free stuff, is that what you want?

No- women just aren't interested in sex with you without free stuff.

so uh wanna fuck? or do you need a new pair of shoes first

give her the shoes.  and i bet that she will give you the blue balls.

[richard]

nah i'll just go in my room and jack off and listen to blackmetal

[McGiver]

nah i'll just go in my room and jack off and listen to blackmetal

don't forget to give her the new shoes first.

[richard]

har har mcfaggot

[McGiver]

har har mcfaggot

hey, the thing is that you will be masturbating anyways, so at least she should get something out of it.