My wife was like me, she waited
for others to approach her. Given
that we were an obvious couple,
this tactic didn't work too well.
Especially since, even when I
would be approached, if they
didn't mention that they were
willing to include her, I'd simply
ignore the issue. She, at least,
would tell me about it, and this
would allow me to make some
progress, if tired or drunk enough.