i don't like using the word "tolerant", as it suggests puting up with something, to me. i'd rather say i have no problem with open relationships at all, but for other people - i know they wouldn't work for me. and from experience, rather than making any moral (or pre-) judgement.
i'm not bothered at all, pea. in fact, i didn't even know you were talking about me.
or have i got that sompletely wrong and you
weren't talking about me? oh gawd - spot the aspie.
anyway, i'm not even sure i can do the "fuck-buddy" thing. i have done, but the game don't seem worth the candle, anymore. oh, it's complicated.
so, are we now all completely confused, or what?