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Quote from: Blue Ball Of Light on May 31, 2007, 05:22:41 PMit's not fair lesbians are turned away. if a bar does that it's a semi-gay bar. also, why turn away all heteros? and what about bis? why can't they turn away those who make trouble regardless of gender or orientation?I would suspect in removing the girls it then helps to remove bi males really. For example, you are a gay guy chatting up a guy you think is cute (but who is bi)....cute bi chick comes in, off he goes to chat her up.There are a lot of gay and lesbian people who are totally ill at ease with the concept of bi-sexual. I also think there are a some gay males who have an aversion to females as they perceive them as competition with cute guys. A broad statement, but having spent time within some of those groups, I'd say you can definitely see those attitudes at times.
it's not fair lesbians are turned away. if a bar does that it's a semi-gay bar. also, why turn away all heteros? and what about bis? why can't they turn away those who make trouble regardless of gender or orientation?
Quote from: Eclair on May 31, 2007, 05:34:47 PMQuote from: Blue Ball Of Light on May 31, 2007, 05:22:41 PMit's not fair lesbians are turned away. if a bar does that it's a semi-gay bar. also, why turn away all heteros? and what about bis? why can't they turn away those who make trouble regardless of gender or orientation?I would suspect in removing the girls it then helps to remove bi males really. For example, you are a gay guy chatting up a guy you think is cute (but who is bi)....cute bi chick comes in, off he goes to chat her up.There are a lot of gay and lesbian people who are totally ill at ease with the concept of bi-sexual. I also think there are a some gay males who have an aversion to females as they perceive them as competition with cute guys. A broad statement, but having spent time within some of those groups, I'd say you can definitely see those attitudes at times.I've found that to be true too- its almost like they think we're just playing at it and in doing so are taking away from their pool of potential partners. Gay people can have a very dismissive attitude towards bisexuals sometimes.
Sometimes the rules are never fair.
Quote from: kevv729 on June 01, 2007, 05:54:19 AMSometimes the rules are never fair.Trust me, I have the photos to prove it...that guy is all over me in all of them!
