Ask Eclair anything.

[Eclair]

IRL, would you say that it is easier for you to make and maintain friendships with guys or girls easier?

Are you going for round 2?
Or are we up to round 7?
Looking for more ammunition?
I'd say 50/50.  Although the female friends I have know better than to whinge for too long with me.

[McGiver]

IRL, would you say that it is easier for you to make and maintain friendships with guys or girls easier?

Are you going for round 2?
Or are we up to round 7?
Looking for more ammunition?
I'd say 50/50.  Although the female friends I have know better than to whinge for too long with me.

ok, you win.


you were write and i was wrong.  i apologise for being so insensitive. to the best of my ability it will never happen again.  will you please forgive me?

[Eclair]

IRL, would you say that it is easier for you to make and maintain friendships with guys or girls easier?

Are you going for round 2?
Or are we up to round 7?
Looking for more ammunition?
I'd say 50/50.  Although the female friends I have know better than to whinge for too long with me.

ok, you win.


you were write and i was wrong.  i apologise for being so insensitive. to the best of my ability it will never happen again.  will you please forgive me?

Is this where I say fuck off and you pretend like that was a sincere apology?

[McGiver]

IRL, would you say that it is easier for you to make and maintain friendships with guys or girls easier?

Are you going for round 2?
Or are we up to round 7?
Looking for more ammunition?
I'd say 50/50.  Although the female friends I have know better than to whinge for too long with me.

ok, you win.


you were write and i was wrong.  i apologise for being so insensitive. to the best of my ability it will never happen again.  will you please forgive me?

Is this where I say fuck off and you pretend like that was a sincere apology?

jesus christ.

and no, those jeans don't make your butt look fat!

[Eclair]

IRL, would you say that it is easier for you to make and maintain friendships with guys or girls easier?

Are you going for round 2?
Or are we up to round 7?
Looking for more ammunition?
I'd say 50/50.  Although the female friends I have know better than to whinge for too long with me.

ok, you win.


you were write and i was wrong.  i apologise for being so insensitive. to the best of my ability it will never happen again.  will you please forgive me?

Is this where I say fuck off and you pretend like that was a sincere apology?

jesus christ.

and no, those jeans don't make your butt look fat!

Looks like it was.  Now fuck off you little cunt.

[McGiver]

IRL, would you say that it is easier for you to make and maintain friendships with guys or girls easier?

Are you going for round 2?
Or are we up to round 7?
Looking for more ammunition?
I'd say 50/50.  Although the female friends I have know better than to whinge for too long with me.

ok, you win.


you were write and i was wrong.  i apologise for being so insensitive. to the best of my ability it will never happen again.  will you please forgive me?

Is this where I say fuck off and you pretend like that was a sincere apology?

jesus christ.

and no, those jeans don't make your butt look fat!

Looks like it was.  Now fuck off you little cunt.

typical.

and to think, that Lit was probably hurt at some point in his life by a person just like you.


TOM? yes, id say that you have it bad.

i see you living inside your own head.  yes, i see you.

[Calandale]

oh, and how long before calandale starts quoting our little fight here and numbering the points he is trying to make.  and in doing so is way off the mark for both of our intentions? 

1. not going to happen. 

2. Question: when you get into fights with someone you're
romantically involved with, do you tend to get very emotional,
or are you more of a cold fighter? I am wondering if the whole
take on the 'make up sex' is based on this.

[Eclair]

oh, and how long before calandale starts quoting our little fight here and numbering the points he is trying to make.  and in doing so is way off the mark for both of our intentions? 

1. not going to happen. 

2. Question: when you get into fights with someone you're
romantically involved with, do you tend to get very emotional,
or are you more of a cold fighter? I am wondering if the whole
take on the 'make up sex' is based on this.

I don't know if I am a cold fighter or not.  Don't much go for relationships where there are endless arguments....gentle teasing or sarcasm, but not attacks.  Don't go for drama queens and that's the truth....it's too hard for me to figure out what's going on and my interpretation is always off.
As I've said previously  there are two of the four people that I really loved, I couldn't tell.  One did turn out to be a drama queen ultimately.  The other I have only had about 2 really heated fights with.

[Eclair]

IRL, would you say that it is easier for you to make and maintain friendships with guys or girls easier?

Are you going for round 2?
Or are we up to round 7?
Looking for more ammunition?
I'd say 50/50.  Although the female friends I have know better than to whinge for too long with me.

ok, you win.


you were write and i was wrong.  i apologise for being so insensitive. to the best of my ability it will never happen again.  will you please forgive me?

Is this where I say fuck off and you pretend like that was a sincere apology?

jesus christ.

and no, those jeans don't make your butt look fat!

Looks like it was.  Now fuck off you little cunt.

typical.

and to think, that Lit was probably hurt at some point in his life by a person just like you.

TOM? yes, id say that you have it bad.

i see you living inside your own head.  yes, i see you.

You are incorrect on that count.  I don't target emotionally weak or insecure men.
If you want to call me out, you know where to take it.  Other than that, I'm not going to continually have to try and explain here the CV of relationships I've had and how far off base you are with me.

[Calandale]

oh, and how long before calandale starts quoting our little fight here and numbering the points he is trying to make.  and in doing so is way off the mark for both of our intentions? 

1. not going to happen. 

2. Question: when you get into fights with someone you're
romantically involved with, do you tend to get very emotional,
or are you more of a cold fighter? I am wondering if the whole
take on the 'make up sex' is based on this.

I don't know if I am a cold fighter or not.  Don't much go for relationships where there are endless arguments....gentle teasing or sarcasm, but not attacks.  Don't go for drama queens and that's the truth....it's too hard for me to figure out what's going on and my interpretation is always off.
As I've said previously  there are two of the four people that I really loved, I couldn't tell.  One did turn out to be a drama queen ultimately.  The other I have only had about 2 really heated fights with.

Thanks. Reminds me a bit of my wife. Simply turned away
and wouldn't fight. I'm not that disciplined. But, we never
really had make up sex, whereas with others it was a regular
occurrence.

[McGiver]

IRL, would you say that it is easier for you to make and maintain friendships with guys or girls easier?

Are you going for round 2?
Or are we up to round 7?
Looking for more ammunition?
I'd say 50/50.  Although the female friends I have know better than to whinge for too long with me.

ok, you win.


you were write and i was wrong.  i apologise for being so insensitive. to the best of my ability it will never happen again.  will you please forgive me?

Is this where I say fuck off and you pretend like that was a sincere apology?

jesus christ.

and no, those jeans don't make your butt look fat!

Looks like it was.  Now fuck off you little cunt.

typical.

and to think, that Lit was probably hurt at some point in his life by a person just like you.

TOM? yes, id say that you have it bad.

i see you living inside your own head.  yes, i see you.

You are incorrect on that count.  I don't target emotionally weak or insecure men.
If you want to call me out, you know where to take it.  Other than that, I'm not going to continually have to try and explain here the CV of relationships I've had and how far off base you are with me.

the  thing is that i am willing to accept that i am wrong about you.

are you willing to accept that you are wrong about me?

[SovaNu]

what the weird? i posted that comment after you asked me abotu eclairs

Don't remember.  You've changed your name, plus I have been on and off this week and really tired.  Did I misread the post?

i have no idea.

[McGiver]

well.
don't you?

[purposefulinsanity]

I know I've already asked this question to Calandale but I'm also interested in what your answer would be.

Do you feel your biggest regrets centre around the things you did do or the opportunities you let slip through your fingers?

[Eclair]

I know I've already asked this question to Calandale but I'm also interested in what your answer would be.

Do you feel your biggest regrets centre around the things you did do or the opportunities you let slip through your fingers?

I only have one regret specifically about a relationship that I had, that I wish I hadn't, but only one.  That is the only regret I have that I can remember.

As for opportunities that I've let slip by, no, I don't have any regrets because I can't really think of any I let slip by to be honest. 

If one comes to mind, I'll let you know.