when really I should have been trying to get my shit together.
Always took it as a given that people who really have their shit together don't hang in places like this. No offense to the membership; just saying.
You are here, too.
I've said it before, I usually come here when I am stressed and need to relax. The by product of that is that I say things off the top of my head, and it amazes me that people who call me a subtle bitch, don't get the context that my thoughts come out a certain way.
I'd even bet that if I was a guy, half the things I said wouldn't be taken as 'bitchy'.
I don't have to measure my words here, and that is the beauty of the site...seriously, here's my perfect IRL example:
Me, meeting workfriends for dinner. See lovely girl from work, who I don't know very well, and she looks gorgeous, amazing in this beautiful top. Of course, in hindsight, the appropriate thing to have said was...'I love your top, you look great'.
No, I say,
"I suppose you think you look hot in that top".And in all honesty, I did not, seriously did not realise the way that it may have sounded to her. I mean, I was thinking 'wow, she should be thinking she's smoking hot in that top, because she is'.
Perfect example.
I just think instead of eeris focusing on internet people and not liking them because of something they said and continually stalking them, she should focus on getting her shit together than criticising me and actually showing herself to be the one who is bitchy for no reason. I am pretty happy with things I've done in my life,if me coming here to relax is an issue and risking hurting sensitive types like eeris, maybe she is focusing on the wrong thing, and should build her own self esteem was my point.
