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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #405 on: June 06, 2007, 02:06:02 AM »
oh, i do realise that many people have extremely low self esteem, and don't
/can't respond positively, by the way, but that's generally a psychotherapeutic issue, rather than a pathological one.

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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #406 on: June 06, 2007, 02:11:24 AM »
I don't know. I DO know that the low self esteem
is a major factor in everything. I thrive off of the
attention that I receive from dancing, from the
way that I dress, from the inappropriate things
that I say. I'm not a person who holds much
faith in psychology, and haven't spent a lot
of time looking into such things. It's just
a matter of looking at the DSM, and saying,
that one looks like it fits me. I looked at
quite a few (since when I take online
tests, I tend to come out pretty damned
fucked) and could see where I came
close on psychopath and BPD, but
these are the only two that I've hit
which seem pretty conclusive.

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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #407 on: June 06, 2007, 02:23:24 AM »
I don't know. I DO know that the low self esteem
is a major factor in everything. I thrive off of the
attention that I receive from dancing, from the
way that I dress, from the inappropriate things
that I say.

bingo - me too.

the rest of it rather comes back to my point about blurred distinctions.  and i tend not to trust online tests that much (although i do them as avidly as you ;) ), as one can't make a clinical assessment of someone without interacting with them in some way of another.  it's the little things which give the most information, in many cases, and the ways in which the "characteristics" are manifested.  for example, my suspicions about my ex having AS were really confirmed (in my view) by the way he walked, which isn't exactly one of the "top boxes to tick", generally.  and i never thought i had a problem with abstract thinking, until a friend (who works with adults with AS) pointed out how it was manifested in me.  i would never have "ticked that box" otherwise, and now i have, i can see examples of it happening all the time, and they don't have any other explanation other than me being stupid (and i'm not).

oh, i'm going on.  and on, and on...  i'll shut up, now.

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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #408 on: June 07, 2007, 05:53:06 AM »

i'm a cappie.  and so's dunc, in case you hadn't worked that one out.   :laugh:

what are you two (eclair and calandale) then?

Taurean, near the Aries cusp.

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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #409 on: June 07, 2007, 05:57:38 AM »
Ohhh I thought you were a bird not a cat?  :laugh:

Seagulls like fish too.

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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #410 on: June 07, 2007, 06:00:16 AM »
Ohhh I thought you were a bird not a cat?  :laugh:

Seagulls like fish too.

But do they also make catty comments?

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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #411 on: June 07, 2007, 06:05:35 AM »
Ohhh I thought you were a bird not a cat?  :laugh:

Seagulls like fish too.

But do they also make catty comments?

I'm a BITCHY bird.

The kind that scares cats away.

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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #412 on: June 07, 2007, 06:11:42 AM »
yay!  earth signs rule!   ;D

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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #413 on: June 07, 2007, 06:13:42 AM »
yay!  earth signs rule!   ;D

Depends on what one wants.
For sensuality, yeah, but sometimes
that's not enough.

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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #414 on: June 07, 2007, 06:16:55 AM »
you haven't fucked many cappies, then.  we're like volcanoes - slow to warm up, but when we do...

Krakatoa, baby!

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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #415 on: June 07, 2007, 06:21:56 AM »
you haven't fucked many cappies, then.  we're like volcanoes - slow to warm up, but when we do...

Krakatoa, baby!

Passed up the one chance that I had.
Foolish me. But, she was kinda off her
rocker.

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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #416 on: June 07, 2007, 06:38:47 AM »
i've heard that about cappie females before, actually.  i must be the exception.  i'm just very, very eccentric, not bonkers.

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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #417 on: June 07, 2007, 06:39:58 AM »
i've heard that about cappie females before, actually.  i must be the exception. i'm just very, very eccentric, not bonkers.

That's a matter of opinion  :-*

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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #418 on: June 07, 2007, 06:40:41 AM »
i've heard that about cappie females before, actually.  i must be the exception. i'm just very, very eccentric, not bonkers.

That's a matter of opinion  :-*

:LMAO:

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Re: Calandale's turn in the spotlight
« Reply #419 on: June 07, 2007, 06:51:18 AM »
Not that I would have had anything
against it, but I suspect that my wife
was already sick of her by the time the
opportunity arose.

Oh, and I thought her bf was better for
her. Too often, I make these kinds of
choices.