Want me to find that castration picture for you to hang up in your workspace? That might discourage them. If you want, I have some stalking information I could send you. Also you can go to the police and ask for help.
Relax, Callaway, it's not that kind of stalking. It's a guy who is genuinely concerned about me and trying to make overtures of friendship, persistently, when what I really want to do is bash his face in.
I wonder if my overtures of friendship can be seen as annoying to some people...
It's a two way street P. I know I can be and some people annoy me, depending upon my mood, physical feeling or whatever. I just learned to be "diplomatic" and not expect much. It's a learning experience. I'm watching my daughter make some of the same mistakes I made. Sometimes I say something, other times I don't, she has to learn by experience too. At least she has people to talk things out with at home and at school and her summer camp.
Ex. for me. I have a heavy winter coat with a "Boston Celtics" basketball team logo and team colors. It's amazing how many people make comments to me, like, "Oh, those Celtics are having a bad year" or some other inane comment. When I'm feeling gregarious, I'll have a short conversation with them. But, most times, especially when I'm shopping for gorceries or on an errand, I'll just smile vaguely, nod my head and utter some vague comment of agreement and go on about my business. I really am not a BIG sports fan. I happen to like the team and the team colors and I do like the sport of basketball. And I love the jacket! It's warm and feels great. I guess people feel the need to be friendly sometime and thats their way of doing so. I don't like to strike up conversations with total strangers!