What does that have to do with my feeling that too much whining drags the whole site down, and that if that was what we wanted why did anyone bother leaving WP? There's a middle ground between acting like a tool for the sake of it, and tiptoeing round people in case you hurt their delicate feelings. The forum for real problems was created so that there was an appropriate venue for getting stuff off people's chests, and reasonably enough responding cuntishly is frowned upon in there. Its existence should not be taken as an indication that people will treat you gently if you post elsewhere. Trying to guess where peoples boundaries and sore spots are is tiring and fucking tedious, which is why sensitive souls are encouraged to think carefully before joining us - because Intensity is a haven from having to mind your Ps and Qs.
I'm glad you grew out of randomly flaming people just because you could - but why should developing respect for people stop you challenging them? You're challenging me now, so I'm returning it - join the site again and we'll debate it properly instead of sniping from the outside. Are you up for it Pea?
