Question renaeden

[Callaway]

In light of recent events?

I think that I give away too much information about myself and so there is less to ask about. I have found on here the less information you give, the more others want to know.
I write easily about myself.
I don't post about my boobs.
Pictures of me are somewhat hidden within this site.
I don't start many topics.
I don't really start arguments or intellectual discussions.
I don't flirt with others.
Posting everything I think is really difficult.
Pretend games are beyond me most of the time (see top of this page).
Long posts from me are a rarity.

So in other words, I am boring. Wish I wasn't. I have done a lot in my past but much of it is bad experience and who wants to read whinging? I have a blog and the people who read that are Russian spammers.

For something different (!) I am going to change my avatar.

I like your new avatar, but I don't think that you are boring at all.

And yes, I meant in light of recent events.

You haven't posted a lot about that, so I think people are respecting your privacy.

[renaeden]

It is difficult to post about recent events because I don't know where to start. But if anyone wants to ask, they can and I will do my best to answer.

[Adam]

I don't think you are boring renaeden - you are one of my favourite people on here (I don't mean that in an ass-kissing way, I just mean when I wasn't here there were a couple people I missed and you were one of them so you're definitely not boring)

I don't post much in people's ask away threads becuase I'm too self centred 

And I'm assuming you don't want me to flirt with you; I think it would be fucked up for me to sexually harrass asexual women too 

[odeon]

I think you're one of the coolest persons here, Renaeden.

[Callaway]

I think you're one of the coolest persons here, Renaeden.

What he said.

[Blasted]

I think you're one of the coolest persons here, Renaeden.

What he said.

Thirded 

[renaeden]

Soph, thanks and I missed you, too. I am glad you are back.

I haven't posted much about being asexual, I guess it is accepted? Loads of people don't understand it and some have never heard of it.

[SleepyDragon]

The weekend magazines in the newspapers will from time to time run an article about asexuality, including interviews with one or more happily-married asexual couples; I don't think it is mysterious. At least not to the demographic which reads those magazines.

Just as people come equipped with a wide variety of neural wiring and skill sets, so too do people possess an astonishing variety of sexual preference, including preferring not to, thank you very much.    And if a site such as this one (which was, after all, founded on the principle of frank and open discussion of whatever its members see fit to discuss) cannot come to terms with the concept, I'd be disappointed.

Whether you post about your experience of asexuality, renaeden, and in what detail, is of course up to you.

[GalileoAce]

There appears to be alot of statements in what is supposed to be a question thread.

[Phlexor]

There appears to be alot of statements in what is supposed to be a question thread.

Statements are probably better than questions like this:

Why don't many people ask you that many questions? Is it because you're not popular or that you're boring?

Of all things to be asked by ones husband. Have you no respect?

[Adam]

renaeden if you ever come to manchester will you come and visit me and Flo? 

(and Volodja my tortoise too. also Lily my dog if you like, but she'd probably jump up at you and try to play with you )

[GalileoAce]

Why don't many people ask you that many questions? Is it because you're not popular or that you're boring?

Of all things to be asked by ones husband. Have you no respect?

I have plenty of respect, do you not think I would've asked her in person about those things first? And discussed my intent to ask the questions here?

The questions were not for her in any case, but rather to drum up questions for her from those here. It's as though everyone here respects her too much and thus risk seeming like you don't care enough to take an interest, or you have no respect and don't care to take interest.

We can all become so self-absorbed in our own lives that we fail to stop and take an interest in the lives of those around us. I am guilty of this; I'm not very good at the whole taking an interest thing, she doesn't get to talk to me much, either through a collective fault or through my fault, so perhaps in some unconscious cog I figured I'd drum up some interest for her to talk about her life and times and troubles and fears. Tis the least a good husband would do.

Perhaps it is the place of the question thread to be forgotten, lost of page 2 where no one will see it. Perhaps no one respects them enough.

Yes, I know all about respect. Thank you.

[P7PSP]

Soph, thanks and I missed you, too. I am glad you are back.

I haven't posted much about being asexual, I guess it is accepted? Loads of people don't understand it and some have never heard of it.

I certainly would not take offense if you elected to talk about that. When you were younger renaeden were you too forthcoming for your own good?  I ask because when I was a lot younger I was, and then learned to hold back and use information in strategic reserve. How old were you when cynicism took root?

[El]

I think you're one of the coolest persons here, Renaeden.

What he said.

Thirded 

Fourthded.

[Adam]

If you had to spend 2 hours in a room with all the regular posters on this site, what would you do when you got there?