I think you need more babies in an aging population, like Italy.
Would you really force an abortion on a woman? (Not a "person who has babies").
From a consumerist stance, you absolutely do want to keep flooding the population, to keep the economy (at least) stable.
But, we have too many people. We either need one hell of a technological miracle, or population will be decreased in far more painful ways.
I don't know if my personal ethics are up to the task of what is right for humanity. I also don't know if I'm in favor of humanity, so I probably wouldn't force an abortion on a female spawner. I sure the hell wouldn't incentivize procreation though. Indeed, probably the opposite.
Speaking of 'woman', I'm willing to accept that is a gender role rather than one intrinsically linked to age and sex.
It seems to fit me well to allow for this kind of identification - because I really don't think of myself as a 'man'.
I'm attracted to female humans, but often find myself completely repulsed by what I see as gender differentiations.
They seem...fake to me. Like identifying as a team fan in sports, and making your whole existence about that.
Anyhow, whatever the term, there are definitely gender based roles and behaviors. And I don't really care where the terms land.
So long as people ain't making themselves plural. That's an abomination.