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Sex & Agression
« on: January 21, 2007, 12:57:42 PM »
  An old friend of mine just told me that her (soon to be) ex-husband, grudge-fucked her.

What is the difference between a grudge-fuck and rape??

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Re: Sex & Agression
« Reply #1 on: January 21, 2007, 01:10:02 PM »
I'd say from a perspective of most responsible, righteous and virtuously wealthy males among us there should be none. I'm afraid from a legal standpoint there could be as much as you can prove.  I can even see the male presented as the victim, to his wife's manipulation. It's another case where the law may be clearly followed, but the intent of the law is lost. Vigilante justice is occasionally justified.

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Re: Sex & Agression
« Reply #2 on: January 21, 2007, 02:44:59 PM »
What's a grudge-fuck?
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14:10 - Moarskrillex42: She said something about knowing why I wanted to move to Glasgow when she came in. She plopped down on my bed and told me to go ahead and open it for her.

14:11 - Peter5930: So, she thought I was your lover and that I was sending you a box full of sex toys, and that you wanted to move to Glasgow to be with me?

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Re: Sex & Agression
« Reply #3 on: January 21, 2007, 02:45:20 PM »
 
What is the difference between a grudge-fuck and rape??

Consent.

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Re: Sex & Agression
« Reply #5 on: January 21, 2007, 02:54:36 PM »
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14:10 - Moarskrillex42: She said something about knowing why I wanted to move to Glasgow when she came in. She plopped down on my bed and told me to go ahead and open it for her.

14:11 - Peter5930: So, she thought I was your lover and that I was sending you a box full of sex toys, and that you wanted to move to Glasgow to be with me?

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Re: Sex & Agression
« Reply #6 on: January 21, 2007, 03:08:53 PM »
interesting topic.

i will be following it closely!
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Re: Sex & Agression
« Reply #7 on: January 22, 2007, 03:01:56 AM »
I thought grudge fucking is what happened to everyone in the movie The Grudge.
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Re: Sex & Agression
« Reply #8 on: January 22, 2007, 04:16:35 AM »
i think its a hard fucking after one of the parties have been wronged.

maybe a slip into the poopchute if you know what i mean.

the legal term is vigilante fucking.
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Re: Sex & Agression
« Reply #9 on: January 26, 2007, 10:08:46 AM »
Geez, I always just thought grudge-fucking was when a couple were having a hard argument, really getting pissed at each other (or possibly a woman who liked a guy who's arguing with him over some other chick he banged) and the both start realizing as their arguing that the arguing itself is dialing up the sexual tension and its getting em hot so it moves from them chewing each other out to putting each other up into walls, up on dressers, and giving each other rug burns. Not quite sure on what I'd say of the mental health angle on it but it is consensual.
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Re: Sex & Agression
« Reply #10 on: January 26, 2007, 10:18:02 AM »
It would be interesting to know which one of those definitions were supposed to be discussing  ???

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Re: Sex & Agression
« Reply #11 on: January 27, 2007, 11:35:13 AM »
Richard Pryor did a sketch on grudge-fucking. Funniest sketch EVA.