As far as I2 not being the type of site one just stumbles on...
I think in that case, the important decider is who is online. An aspie or autie or the parents of a spazz might well do, but general NTs I'd think it far less likely.
And lol walkie hun, you've done nothing wrong. And please, *gently slides an arm warmly over your shoulder and actually looks seriously at walkie*, DON'T think of your being a spazz as something for which you bear fault, it is not, and you have no guilt to expiate hun. Obviously, I couldn't know it had I never known you, since one cannot miss what one doesn't know exists, but if you left, or worse, something happened to you, I'd take it pretty hard, your spazzyness comes over as warm and sweet, and you personally, are one of the select few here that I'd really be hurt if you were lost to us. To me, you matter to me, and damn your eyes lass, 'your FAULT'? it's nobody's 'fault' for being autistic, aspie, Rett's, or if they have some sort of syndromic MR. Nobody has the capability of determining their genetic makeup in gestation.
And hey, I don't think of it as a fault. I think of it as something that makes you all the richer for it.