My mum drank after she had the four of us.
That's how it worked here.
They need to do some more research on effects at conception and put some stern warnings out there for the guys too. A generation of kids where probably conceived after the husband came home drunk...but not too drunk to get it up.
Doctors need to stop denying effective birth control methods to women that WANT to remain childless, or decide they only want one child. Women are still treated in many places as if they don't really know WHAT they want in life.
That doesn't even go into how many women are denied effective birth control because of some potential health risk.
"I'm sorry...I can't prescribe birth control for you due to your blood test results." ..."but if you don't choose to be celibate or rely on less effective methods...whatever you do don't go out and drink until you hit menopause."
...and if you did and it happened..."shame on you...you should have known better."