oh, and I did try sarcasm earlier, it didn't work then either. I still think this world is large enough for more than one valid point of view. except the house where I grew up. they could still be burned to the ground together and the world would be the better off for it. But I shall still say that the pain they've caused has given me a keen sense of perspective, and I STILL hold out my appology to Hellznrg for sidetracking his "welcome aboard mate" thread.
ps. my humor and sarcasm streak develop by pure chance, while people were laughing at me. I just went with it, but now I may be inclined to lay it by the wayside, and continue on with a normal life...