Saw autistic woman on the street twice, approach?

[神]

Yeah, I should be locked in for being interested in women. Makes perfect sense.

I realize that it is a difficult situation, but I don't really know how difficult. In psychiatry for example, it was considered normal to get to know each other and form relationships. But if it is on the streets, why can't the same thing happen? Or rather how?

Wondering if you should talk to someone, and right after that posting a link to porn to show us what you look like just sounds a little off to the usual way of introducing yourself to someone in the street.

It's not the wanting to introduce oneself that makes it weird and scary, that in itself is fine. It is the whole setting that makes it way beyond awkward.


And, if that girl had her mother with her, you can count on it that her mother already has got a first impression of you. If you looked eager, she will be wary, very wary. Too many autistic girls (and boys) have fallen victim to creeps. Easy prey.

This is an 18+ site, what has the porn link to do with it? That guy just looked very similar. That he was in a fisting porn clip was just coincidence and it is still appropriate to this forum. I know people are superficial and ruling out that I look like a rapist or something was important I think.

What is the whole setting? Talking to someone rather arbitrarily on the street? It is a bit awkward, but normal people do it too.

I just want to get to know her. I think normal people would rather not approach someone who looks like they have a mental disability. No clue why or how the mother would get overly protective.

[ZEGH8578]

Talking to someone rather arbitrarily on the street? It is a bit awkward, but normal people do it too.

No, hitting on someone with the desperate hope of fucking as soon as possible. That is beyond awkward, and only perverted lunatics do it. Join their club!

[Semicolon]

I don't think you should date her unless she has a big penis. Otherwise, she wouldn't be worth your time.

[神]

Can't you take anything serious? Like having real relationships and stuff .

[Semicolon]

Can't you take anything serious? Like having real relationships and stuff .

I can, on occasion.

You mentioned nothing about her but her physical characteristics and that you think that she's autistic.

[Genesis]

You sick Fuck!

[神]

?/

[P7PSP]

I don't think you should date her unless she has a big penis. Otherwise, she wouldn't be worth your time.

Can't you take anything deep? 

He told you Semi.

[TheoK]

Here is another lady for DFGL 

[Pyraxis]

ruling out that I look like a rapist or something was important I think.

Who cares whether you look like a rapist? You act like a rapist. People are going to pick up on those vibes and then you'll be left wondering why you're being avoided for no apparent reason.

You're pushy as shit. If you want to come off as non-creepy, you have to take things far slower than you do.

[神]

How do I act like a rapist?

How am I pushy? I like things settled, because autism.

I know I wrote you excess messages, but I thought you were the kind of person who would understand how it is.

I can only really pursue or forget about things .

[Pyraxis]

Then you'd best stick to the borderlines who will be responsive to that kind of all or nothing approach.

You may like things settled, and that is understandable with day-to-day things, but you cannot allow your autistic focus to become attached to things which are intrusive to a person you are trying to approach. Like oh say what's in their pants.  Other other intimate personal details like that. That is how boundaries get violated and that is how rapes happen. Not every woman will have the confidence to tell you to fuck off when they get uncomfortable, loudly and forcefully enough for it to penetrate your haze of self-righteous "logic".

[P7PSP]

I like things settled, because autism.

I know I wrote you excess messages, but I thought you were the kind of person who would understand how it is.

I can only really pursue or forget about things .

It is because stupid not because autism. Fucking moron. 

[Genesis]

First of all going after someone especially a woman (autistic or not) is an all time low. If you take advantage of someone because of their vulnerability then you are just pathetic.

[odeon]

And, if that girl had her mother with her, you can count on it that her mother already has got a first impression of you. If you looked eager, she will be wary, very wary. Too many autistic girls (and boys) have fallen victim to creeps. Easy prey.

And judging from the posts here, she would be ware for a very good reason.

I'd strike first, as a preventive measure.

See guns are a useful tool in the right hands