Then I would tell the girl to please knock the shit off. It seems as though she is doing stuff to piss the other guys off, but the people more at fault are the NTS.
I get pissed off at the fact that any asshole who's ever been to a doctor can get a handicapped license plate and that the first twenty five spots at any department store are reserved for them, but I will not park in one of the spots reserved for them, myself, no matter how annoyed I feel. I also get out of their way and hold the door for them. The point is that we all allow them an extra wide path to live in, because they are just as important as the next person, challenges met or not.
I'm not saying that a physical handicap is the same as AS, but there can be severe unquenched, even unrecognized, emotional thirsts and needs, with AS, and the ways people choose to try to meet those needs is not always popular with NTs. They need to learn that some of us need an extra wide path, too.