I agree with bodie - how would he have known that we don't really like locking threads here?
You can't really criticise someone (especially a new person) for locking his thread, when we have given them the ability to do that
Also most people don't spend that long researching a forum and working out the "culture" there before they join/post
Especially for a forum mostly full of people with ASDs, it seems kinda strange to expect new people to "know" the unwritten "rules" and "culture" of the place
If we don't want people locking threads then why give them the function in the first place?
I could understand the response if he'd locked a thread he was having a big argument in and was clearly losing. That would show cowardice. But to criticise someone for locking the thread just because we don't "do that" here seems kinda daft
Who says when it's ok and when it's not ok to lock a thread?
Good points all around, Adam.
One exception: We give members the ability to insult other members' children, but that would be met with criticism.
I don't even know if locking threads is automatically considered a negative by a majority of members. I don't automatically see it as cowardly.
My first impression is to disagree with Odeon and McJagger. There's nothing to prevent someone who wants to comment on a subject from starting another thread that isn't locked, correct? Locking a thread won't necessarily stop a discussion. So why not err on the side of giving members more freedom?
You two have a prejudice against locking threads as being cowardly. The recently locked threads earned a shrug from me. If they didn't, I'd just start new threads.
I half-recall one thread that's somewhere in the bowels of the forum by now. One of the regular members was having a personal problem and locked the thread after it was discussed because the member didn't want to be reminded of it. If anyone else can recall more, please join in.
I'm curious about your arguments against locking. I'll think about it.
Why is the freedom of the one more important than the freedom of the many? Presumably the locked thread had more than that one member posting in it, so by locking it the member is actively limiting the other members' ability to express their meaning.
As for that old private stuff argument, if you don't want your stuff on the internet, then don't post it there.
If it was posted there without your consent and you didn't have anything to do with publishing it any way, then that's a different discussion, unrelated to the locked threads one.
Even if locking threads is cowardly, since when is there a policy of making hard rules against things that are cowardly? Why not just use the current system of callouts?