Bully and troll (best of)

[Al Swearegen]

DFG is a nice young lady and a good member not just here but on other forums too. I do not doubt that she is quirky anywhere she posts. That comes with part of the territory in being aspie I do not think she is malicious though. Not in my experience of her. I do not think her cruel or unmanageable or manipulative or stupid.

[RageBeoulve]

She is most certainly not.

[Bastet]

I have recently learned that DFG is a staff member on another site

And that presents a conflict of interest.

Such as her posting here today

in an effort to undermine AFN.

AFN is seen as competing with their site

Our site is not in competition with anyone

This isn't about my ego at all

We do offer a safe haven

 for Autists to belong to.

We only serve our community

And the people that wish to belong there

and want to make a genuine contribution.

They are our only concern.

And that presents a conflict of interest.

Yeah because your internet forum is a sovereign nation with a constitution and stuff. And you're god, of course. Moderating another forum is TREEEEEASON.

Such as her posting here today

in an effort to undermine AFN.

Actually she is posting here today, asking her REAL friends to help her make sense of this strange behavior you seem hellbent on.

AFN is seen as competing with their site

Our site is not in competition with anyone

So you say, but every action you take paints a different picture, bubba.

We do offer a safe haven

 for Autists to belong to.

Hitler just wanted a safe place for the master race to belong to, also. You're getting off to a pretty shitty start if attacking fellow autists is how you provide a safe place for them.

We only serve our community

And the people that wish to belong there

and want to make a genuine contribution.

They are our only concern.

  HEIL!

Actually DFG was a mod at AFN before she advised she wanted to learn SMF. I Admined her. I did not have any real doubts. She is trustworthy and has a good heart and is pretty solid. I saw having her as a member and Admin at my site a benefit. I find every one of my members there a tremendous benefit and I am proud to have them there.

I did not see her as being another site's mod. I don't give a shit. I don't care if she is on Wrongplanet or I2 either. None of this ought to matter. I certainly did not consider it conflict of interest and i would not willingly place any of my members in a situation that due to possible conflict of interest, would have them feel, disloyal, having to choose a side, upset, embarrassed.....because that is not looking after your members and that is not respecting them. I WOULD BE IF I was in competition because them I would weigh their actions with my forum against possible actions against another forum. If I was not in competition it would not matter, right?

Don't get shitty at her posting her in an open area. She feels more "safe" doing so here for some reason. (Could any one guess why?) It is not to undermine it is done as a counter to some actions YOU initiated.

Such as her posting here today

in an effort to undermine AFN

Paranoia is the refuge of the irrational.

I Was not made mod at AFN till after you made me admin. I was a mod on for our friends, but all the other mods were transferred to AFN but me. Sky blue being passive aggressive yet again.

[Bastet]

I wanted to clarify aspiemomma offered me mod reinstatement and still does. I don't appreciate what was said about me. I reacted finally. I did my best to ignore the jabs, the lies. It upset me. I feel unwanted untrusted unappreciated. I don't care to rejoin afn. I was apprehensive of a site with Skyblue1 at the helm. I am willing to try to move on from this. I am a bit distrracted. Too much going on at once. If this can be fixed, I am willing to try. I will try to distance myself from the pain.

[RageBeoulve]

^The results of a "safe space for autists". Take a good long look at that, Skyblue. Understand the consequences of your actions.

[bodie]

I wanted to clarify aspiemomma offered me mod reinstatement and still does. I don't appreciate what was said about me. I reacted finally. I did my best to ignore the jabs, the lies. It upset me. I feel unwanted untrusted unappreciated. I don't care to rejoin afn. I was apprehensive of a site with Skyblue1 at the helm. I am willing to try to move on from this. I am a bit distrracted. Too much going on at once. If this can be fixed, I am willing to try. I will try to distance myself from the pain.

   Try and stay focused on your school stuff

[McGiver]

I knew that aspie momma was a nice lady.  Why she got mixed up with that asptard is beyond me.
Survival instinct maybe?

[Jesse]

Holy SHIT. They posted a picture of themselves,

[El-Presidente]

Holy SHIT. They posted a picture of themselves,

Link?

[Jesse]

 

 

[El-Presidente]

Where was this posted?

[Jesse]

on AFN

[Pyraxis]

I knew that aspie momma was a nice lady.  Why she got mixed up with that asptard is beyond me.
Survival instinct maybe?

Maybe he treats her better than the last guy.

[McGiver]

I knew that aspie momma was a nice lady.  Why she got mixed up with that asptard is beyond me.
Survival instinct maybe?

Maybe he treats her better than the last guy.

maybe if my aunt had balls shed be my uncle.

[McGiver]

In all seriousness, sky blue is socially challenged like many of us are.  Im sure he means well. And is probably a fiercely loyal partner. 
Im just being opportunistic here and pissing on him.  Im immature that way.

Im just trying to show him that you can't be mean spirited without reprocussions.  Probably not make much of a difference because you can't teach an old dog new tricks.