It goes against the grain, actually. Your site is the one marketed as 'providing a safe haven for autists' and yet you have just treated DFG very badly indeed.
Coping with the event you have just subjected her to would be pretty hard to take for a NT, so how safe a haven did you provide her? "Hi DFG you are a mod" ... ten mins later "You are not anymore"
Poor girl wants to know why "You used the word penis" "You are untrustworthy" "Not positive enough" "Staff on another site" REMOVING POSTS BANNING HER FELLA ACCUSATIONS OF THREATENING TEXTS etc etc
Don't you see, your actions don't match the spiel on your website. Some safe haven.