I am not bothered what they do with me when I am dead.
I have never understood why people make such a hoo ha about it. We live in a world where living, breathing human beings get tortured, abused or starved. Worry about that before worrying about what happens to dead people.
Not 100% sure but I think even if you carry a donor card the wishes of your family come first.
Here you don't have to carry your card anymore, once you are registered. And, in the registration you can give family a bigger say in it, or a less big say. I've been pondering on changing it, for the coming few years, but till now have not. I think my girls would find it very hard seeing me breathe, when knowing I'm dead. But, they might also find some comfort in knowing parts of me would help others live.
I'm not donating blood. I get dizzy, on the brink of fainting, when they take more than four vials for blood testing. I can watch without flinching when they take less than that. So, thought giving a pint on a regular basis was not a good idea.
If I get somewhere where they need O neg urgently, I'll make myself available.