Christian Mingle?
EHarmony?
Hell no. I wont get on Christian mingle, if it was the last dating website in the world. EHarmoney is a waste of time because you have to pay
I do have a Okcupid which has free messaging, but after awhile your profile goes cold. nobody visits it anymore and I'm of the opinion that it doesn't work.
Its difficult I guess understanding someone in my position