Ok so what quality would you say goes along with this 'bastardly behaviour' that makes women attracted to men who behave like that but isn't actually bastardly behaviour?
I thought you were saying that men hide their bad side from the women they want to sleep with because they really want nice guys.
it is mostly confidence,
also they way they interact with other people
the little instinct part of a womans brain wants strong leaders
you don’t have to be a bastard to be one of them
bastards just act like there in control of every one
because they don’t care if they are not the top dog they will pretend
and men do modify there behavior around potential mates
they do not become "nice guys" they just don't treet the woman like they treet other men so they often do not come off as jerks to a woman will they will to her male friends
YOU do relise that there is a medium between jurk and nice guy right?
So its ok to make assumptions and generalisations about half of the world's population, but prejudice when you do it about a smaller group?
My point is that although people do often makes generalisations about others (based on very little evidence sometimes) it doesn't make it right, and the way you reacted to that (even though I stated that I wouldn't agree) kinda proves my point.
No it dose not it just proves that YOU don’t understand I will give u an example of both and lets see if you can figger it out
Generalization = woman are sexually attracted to men
Predjuce= because you are a woman you must be attracted to men
If I say in my experience I am talking about my limited experience other wise I am talking about valid studies
And on the supposed reaction to what you said to me I did not address that point
I just don’t need to
Where did I state that I did know the limits of your knowledge??
Second- I didn't once say that I didn't believe in instincts-I do however believe these are more complex than you believe[/font][/font] (yes I got at from the start that you were simplifying) and that you're just limiting your comments on these based on which ones will back up your argument.
and i am still waiting for you to tell me where i apparently said
"that only those who are somehow fucked up would want to have a relationship with someone that challenges them for instance"
Ok since I obviously misinterpreted your other comment about this what about this one:
yes there are some woman who want to be treating badly they have low self esteem
or to little self control?
I maintain that is a valid point people who have been abused will often seek it out after
Or more likely just fall in to the same trap
There was a quote missing in there the
Or to little self control was directed at some one post and not part of that comment
