You know, that is what bothers me here. Unlike someone like Meadow, I don't think you are manipulative or do this on purpose. I think you just don't see the patterns.
I'm not sure what to do about that. A thread like that "do you want me to leave" one is all about perception, as is Bodie's funny stuff thread. I'm not sure how to make you see the difference between what you do and what others do.
For myself,at least, the 'personality' is also all about perceptions; I hardly see myself the way described above & thus it does, quickly, become a lot more complicated than it's being presented as being. No, it's not rocket science, where I'm sure I can find out as much as I wanted to know about it with google, it's a lot more complicated that tnat!