what the fuck should i do with my hair?

[Adam]

yeh got another one n half hours too barely even room to stand either!

['andersom']

here's a bigger version. although I gel it forward now instead of having it to the sides. but it's about the same length. having it long at the sides really annoys me though, so I kinda wanted to get it short at the sides and back, and then slightly longer on top, and still gel it forward. if that makes any sense. I dunno the technical terms!

Perfect directions for a hairdresser,

or,

told you before, come and visit me, and I'll cut your hair for you.

['andersom']

I didnt really understand that tbh and dunno what layers are

I dont wanna fuck around doing anything fancy

 You're wise to avoid it.  I tried cutting my own hair in layers once, years ago.
 It was a complete disaster!  Now I just trim the ends when I need to. 

I do it a bit, but, I do go to a hairdresser once or twice a year too, because I love the pixie haircut, and, I am not good at getting that right. Can keep it into something decent for half a year or longer after getting it that short and sexy. I should see a hairdresser more often though, sexy beats decent.

[P7PSP]

here's a bigger version. although I gel it forward now instead of having it to the sides. but it's about the same length. having it long at the sides really annoys me though, so I kinda wanted to get it short at the sides and back, and then slightly longer on top, and still gel it forward. if that makes any sense. I dunno the technical terms!

Perfect directions for a hairdresser,

or,

told you before, come and visit me, and I'll cut your hair for you.

Netherlands would be so quick and easy from the UK. Do it Soph!

[Adam]

lol hyke u gotta come here, not the other way round! anyway havin a good time here, my mates dad is drunk and been talkin total bollocks, its hilarious. met a couple new guys at the pub today

[Queen Victoria]

Saw the cut on FB.  Nice.

BTW, bette get used to standing on public transportation now that your a male-in-waiting.  Gentlemen let the ladeez sit.

['andersom']

Saw the cut on FB.  Nice.

BTW, bette get used to standing on public transportation now that your a male-in-waiting.  Gentlemen let the ladeez sit.

 

['andersom']

Just had a look, well done!!

["couldbecousin"]

Saw the cut on FB.  Nice.

BTW, bette get used to standing on public transportation now that your a male-in-waiting.  Gentlemen let the ladeez sit.

 Gentlemen also make room for lady Weeble passengers!

[El]

I've heard from guys with long hair that it is harder to get a date; I guess lots of girls have poor sense of aesthetics.   

As far as my own preferences, two of my exes and one semi-fling I've had have had really long hair, and a third had pics of himself with long hair on the site I met him off of but cut it short right before meeting me- which was really disappointing.  He said he got lots more girls talking to him on the site after pics of the haircut went up, though.  Managed to talk a fourth ex into cutting his hair less frequently when he was dating me; it never got super-long but it looked a lot better shaggy than short-cut (in his case, partly because he was a fat fuck even before he let himself go, and the shorter his hair was, the fatter his face looked).

It's becoming a less strong preference now that I'm around more people with non-typical fashion sense (i.e. it doesn't have the same strong novelty factor for me), but it's still a preference.

Perhaps I'm better off just attracting girls who like non-typical guys; I don't think I'd get along well with someone who was looking for the straight-cut type.

Long hair is becoming a bit more acceptable on guys right now, I think.  But yes, you'd prolly do poorly with a girl who wanted someone you aren't.

I think this might be another case of your mum picking at something arbitrarily, Peter.  Even if it wasn't fabulous looking, your hair isn't exactly the most important thing you have going on right now.

She worries that I'll never get a girlfriend and that I'll be sad and lonely after she dies.  Fortunately, I think she's now at least given up on the idea of me having kids.

Wait, she throws all those insults at you but she wants you to breed?  O_o

[Peter]

I've heard from guys with long hair that it is harder to get a date; I guess lots of girls have poor sense of aesthetics.   

As far as my own preferences, two of my exes and one semi-fling I've had have had really long hair, and a third had pics of himself with long hair on the site I met him off of but cut it short right before meeting me- which was really disappointing.  He said he got lots more girls talking to him on the site after pics of the haircut went up, though.  Managed to talk a fourth ex into cutting his hair less frequently when he was dating me; it never got super-long but it looked a lot better shaggy than short-cut (in his case, partly because he was a fat fuck even before he let himself go, and the shorter his hair was, the fatter his face looked).

It's becoming a less strong preference now that I'm around more people with non-typical fashion sense (i.e. it doesn't have the same strong novelty factor for me), but it's still a preference.

Perhaps I'm better off just attracting girls who like non-typical guys; I don't think I'd get along well with someone who was looking for the straight-cut type.

Long hair is becoming a bit more acceptable on guys right now, I think.  But yes, you'd prolly do poorly with a girl who wanted someone you aren't.

I think this might be another case of your mum picking at something arbitrarily, Peter.  Even if it wasn't fabulous looking, your hair isn't exactly the most important thing you have going on right now.

She worries that I'll never get a girlfriend and that I'll be sad and lonely after she dies.  Fortunately, I think she's now at least given up on the idea of me having kids.

Wait, she throws all those insults at you but she wants you to breed?  O_o

More just that she wants me to be happy.  It's not very often that she throws insults at me; just when she's in a heightened emotional state, and particularly when something triggers bad memories and causes an amygdala hijack.    The stuff with my appearance is more of an anxious nagging, with helpful hints like "girls won't like it if you look like X" and "wouldn't you be happier if you did Y?".  She has some serious theory of mind issues, so statements like those translate directly to "I won't like it if you look like X" and "I'd be happier if you did Y", and she has difficulty with the concept that her own tastes and preferences are not universal absolutes.

[Parts]

 

[Adam]

couple pics that kinda show my hair now

have only just got back home, so havent had chance to sort it out properly yet - some parts are longer than others etc lol

[Adam]

first pic kinda disproves the BS that I have good skin!

[El]

first pic kinda disproves the BS that I have good skin!

Better'n mine at the moment.

And I still think you should get a mohawk.  And gauged earrings.  And we should start trading clothes.  We still have similar taste in clothes (well, not the stuff you're wearing in the bottom pic, that's like the shit I *have* to wear for work to look respectable).