Anyway, I do not consider all of you trolls, there are some of you that I actually like, Bodie, PSP, Zippo, QV, and a few others. Those members I do not consider trolls. I will not be posting here much anymore.
Well thank you!
There are a number of things i could think of to do with young men such as yourself - but am going to be good and opt for mothering you and giving you some advice.
There is no poison in the troll making machine. This is not a maker of trolls. This site is merely a vessel that gives you a freedom to speak as you want. Some people use this freedom to explore darker sides to their character. It can bring out the very worst in people. This is not the fault of the site.
It is true that a few probably need a moderated site in order to remain decent to others. Other people are just naturally kind spirited and are not in need of such moderation.
I have seen much of both here. Then there is in betweeners. I have seen people who twist and turn like twisty-spinny-turney-wormey-things. They will be trying to follow in someone elses footsteps, or will post something just to try and be popular.
For me it is a constant challenge to resist the temptation to be nasty at times. It is about self restraint. I try to be honest, and not have any heroes on here. Heroes will surely default at some point and cause you to feel let down. I try to post stuff that is true to me, and not worry about if it is popular or not but at the same time i try to be nice to others and treat them how i would like to be treated myself. It is not always easy.
One thing for sure, if you stick around you will see all these things too and it is a worthy personal challenge to see if you yourself can remain a decent human being.
It reminds me sometimes of a book 'the lord of the flies'.
My advice to you is to stick around. Try not to focus much on the faults of others. What PPK said is very true that you are only responsible for your own actions. This should be all that concerns you.
There are some very good people here. There is also support and wisdom. It just isn't advertised and may require some scratching under the surface.
You will learn much if you stay.