Thanks everyone. I'm not sure if the catheter thing worked as it should. He was cathertized twice in the hospital, once for a "quickie" drainage and once to go home. I took the catheter out the next day, or rather it almost took its self out. PA said none of this bothered him. Maybe I've found a new profession, Professional Catheter Remover, or else he secretly likes pain.
Took the PR to bowling, went to 6 stores, fixed meals for the family, computed.