renae: What you need is a local me. Someone who can take you places, show you a good time, and that can help. You want a woman ideally. Try to get involved with the local autism community. You don't need random strange men. That's what you will get if you volunteer there. Use this place as a place to share stuff and tell us about all the great stuff you get up to. Also: don't post on Reddit but use it as a resource. Posting on it will invite trouble.
I had a good instant coffee before.