I am the mender in our relationship. My mother thought everyone should know how to sew.
However, the last bit of mending required both pliers and a needle and thread.
I don't see as much mending in my stuff, likely because I don't do laundry as often as I should. After all, if I don't change clothes for a few days that's finally when it gets comfortable.
I was not looking forward to the shot today, but it's over now.