I can't even imagine what that can be like.
Well I hear you get used to it
I don't know. It's going to be a tough summer in that I have both kids together every other weekend but during the week they're apart. One with me M-F, the other with their Dad M-F and then we switch. So I'm going a week at a time without seeing one or the other. (except I have them one whole week together in July and one week together in August) DS has never been away from me for that long, nor with his Dad that much in his whole life. He's very stressed about it but he said at least 3/5 weeks he's with his Dad he's at daycamp which made him feel better.
DD though, it's been hardest on her so far. She's such an emotive little being and we miss each other something fierce.
I keep trying to find the silver lining and whatnot. Some days are easier than others.