^Wondering what your problem is. Especially in relation to this:
I believe in being accountable for one's own actions against someone else who's supposed to be a dear one to the "person". I don't recall it doing anything of the sort.
You don't even know me, really. We have barely interacted. Or is it the principle of what happened and I and GA ourselves don't really matter?
I don't think I need to know you at all in order to know that what GA has done to you is unacceptable. Yes, it's the principle of what happened that's of significance to me, but that is not negating the idea that you don't matter as a person. So it'd be good if you don't put yourself with GA in the same sentence when having a discussion with me because I sure don't believe that it's worth being in the same statement as your name.
Am wondering if it was my initial reaction to GA's transitioning that made what she did "unacceptable". If I had been completely fine with it, still living with her and continuing our marriage, would that make it more acceptable.
Instead I got depressed, ODd on haloperidol (I don't recommend it) and when that didn't do what I wanted it to do, moved to my parents place. These were my choices and my actions (well not the depression part but I think that was waiting on the sidelines to be triggered into happening), I could just have easily had stayed with GA and supported her through what must have been a tough time for her too. But I left her to deal alone. While I had support in the form of my parents. It has been a year and a half since I left GA and she is finding it very hard to cope financially which I feel terrible about since I am managing to save money.
And it turns out that we probably wouldn't be together now anyway due to me being asexual and GA is not. Is there fault there? If there is, it would be mine for not wanting to do something that is very natural to everyone (except defects like me). Not the first relationship I have had that ended due to that. It takes two, see, GA can't be blamed for all.
