I wonder if she did have an abortion? and if not why he is so sure she did? Seems a little odd
don't you think? In UK the hospital issue paperwork for the mother and her GP. I would have thought
there was some record she could have shown him stating that her pregnancy had ended in
a miscarriage. Has she done this and he is in denial?, or if she hasn't i would be inclined to
think an abortion was a possibility. She may not have needed any medical intervention if it
was very early on in the pregnancy but i can't find any info about that.
Therefore i am resisting the temptation to slag him off too much.
I know his billboard and internet posts are really sick but if he is telling the truth,
then i can see why he is lashing out in a way. It is
something that must be very frustrating for a potential keen and willing father to be. To
have to come to terms with losing a child, and having no control or say over wether
that child lives or dies...it must be awful
(yes and before anyone say's 'well he doesn't have to carry it round for nine months' -
i know!) Still must be a bummer situation to find yourself in if you are a bloke - your partner
wants rid, but you don't.
It is very hard to judge as we don't really know the truth. I think people are usually very
quick to slag off blokes who don't want to hang around when a child is on the horizon -
and it would seem that was furthest from his mind.
I think that no matter what the father's intentions are, it has to be up to the mother whether or not to carry the child to term.
He had unprotected sexual intercourse with her telling her that he couldn't father children when obviously that wasn't the case, so if her health issues make it more risky for her to have a baby, what would her option be if it was up to the man whether or not she should carry a baby for nine months?
In the US, there are confidentiality laws concerning medical records, so unless
I say that it's OK for the doctor to discuss my medical issues with my husband, the doctor cannot, and we're married. So a stalker ex boyfriend would have no standing to look at his ex-girlfriend's medical records, if there were any. As you said, if the miscarriage was early enough, it wouldn't need medical intervention.
Try to imagine things from the woman's point of view. Imagine having a miscarriage and being accused by your control freak boyfriend or stalker ex-boyfriend of having an abortion. How inclined would you be to give this man access to your medical records? What might someone like that do with the information?