Just think maybe the callout stuff should not be visivble until you have made so many posts. I was lucky when i joined as there wasn't
much going on.
I must admit that i worry sometimes, about posting stuff - in case it is taken the wrong way and i get a 'call out' so i am sure
it must make others hesitate about wether they ought to bother posting.
I would poop my pants if someone like Sir Les called me out - think i would unplug internet for a while! - like several years lol
Mmm, a lot of callouts are actually in threads themselves. I do remember getting absolutely reamed a few times not long after I first joined when I voiced my opinions on stuff.
Plus there were a few pretty volatile incidents that I probably found really upsetting at the time, and not sure quite how to tackle.
In fact, it was only in one post today that I really bit my tongue hard on something, probably for the first time I recall, and that is the beauty of being here....often I will have said something, and realise that there is another perspective, or I will say something off the cuff, not realising that I'll be called out on it later on.
I actually think the callouts are a bit more tamer than they used to be.
I think you just need to be the most authentic version of yourself. Though, that's not to say that everyone else operates under that mode, because clearly, they do not. I also know that sometimes a callout is for pure shits and giggles, rather than an issue that you want to call someone out for their bullshit on...identifying the difference is the big thing. For example, I know Schleed is just a sarcastic cunt to me because he wants a rise, but if I nab someone, it may be unintentional, but I'll meet the challenge on my opinion. eris is a good example of that. Or sometimes, I get sick of someone's hypocricy, and feel unable to keep my mouth shut.
Odeon tried to call me out once, and I simply ignored it, he was being a wanker and I knew it was not going to resolve anything and just be a waste of time.
But it did say things about you, that you ignored the callout. You didn't back up your shit and to me that is sometimes just as telling.
Excuse me?
I've just looked in the Main Event, and Main Event callouts...can't see it. From memory, you were pissed because some comment was made about your children, and despite Soph saying that obviously someone was trying to get a rise out of you, and you should ignore it...you kept on and kept attacking Soph...
that's my vague memory of it.
What shit exactly did I have to back up? That you refused to comprehend Soph's point?
Don't try and start shit Odeon that YOU can't back up. You were emotional, which was understandable, but every time Soph or I tried to say 'look, just ignore it' you attacked us.
I could be completely wrong on my memory of that, but starting shit that I don't back myself up is just bullshit, and you know it.
phobia.
